THAT! Is exactly why my first marriage fell apart. Well, aside of her being unfaithful...but anything I expressed how I felt...she was only offended that I spoke. She NEVER considered why I was feeling that way.
2026-07-24 01:47:59
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LJF :
I told my wife that exact thing and she told me I wasn't feeling that way 😳 We're separated now 🥳
2026-07-12 21:00:13
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JennyO33 :
HIS FYP
2026-07-11 00:35:06
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1800GETSOME :
I listen but not when I was younger
2026-07-12 21:01:53
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resmarted :
I hate so much that alot of these things will feel true for both people involved. so where you start?
2026-08-17 05:33:49
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Anne | Traveler & Explore :
My husband
2026-08-16 10:10:52
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Just here to crash out :
Ok but what if he’s been treating you like complete garbage for a week and you have no idea why, you finally lose it, and that’s when he wants to talk about what hurt him.
2026-07-18 00:04:42
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Princess High Priestess :
My ex always says: oh you’re just explaining!
2026-07-13 18:55:59
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❌HVAC GUY❌ :
well now I'm defensive because of what you said
2026-07-13 01:39:29
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christinadillman2 :
exactly
2026-09-07 16:24:04
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Michigan Jems :
100%
2026-07-26 23:52:44
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˙✧˖° 🫧 ⋆。˚꩜ :
my sister gets SO MAD I’m like dude you are clearly hiding something
2026-07-29 18:37:03
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bgood :
its a clue that you may not have space to hold other people feelings because you might be still working on holding dpace for your own. Give yourself grace and keep practicing 🥰
2026-07-12 15:02:11
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jacqui 💕🍉 :
Some people like to project I listen to them making up stories where I’m the villain in their story
2026-07-14 19:54:20
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jenny.vs18 :
yep they are babies
2026-07-12 11:54:43
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neuropepper :
Abusers get defensive when presented with a valid claim, to dismiss and deny reality. Abusers will also come at you claiming to be hurt by something you did, as an excuse to berate and belittle you. Abuse victims are trained to be defensive, for survival. Being defensive doesn’t mean just one thing. What they’re defending against matters.
2026-07-26 17:58:44
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Nefynhop :
Not always. Had an ex gf who told me I hurt her bc I prioritized my 12 year old daughter and demanded that I prioritize her. Yeah, I got defensive after she started the insults.
2026-07-10 21:32:29
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Richie Foster :
so we can't be nice and kind anymore
2026-07-11 21:35:59
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Danielle Darine Dominguez :
Just called the FBI three times about my children being kidnapped from me and they hung up on me. There was no omg! When, where, what happened. No listening they just kept cutting me off. On a recorded line! Yeah No why TF would I have the audacity to call the fing FBI?
2026-07-12 15:36:06
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Jay Wayne :
@Nick Sorum305
2026-08-03 12:19:12
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montecarlo517 :
😂😂😂
2026-07-12 04:50:29
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liv13920 :
@BENJAMIN GURKA
2026-08-11 16:09:25
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Classicalman :
But that response is in white lady DNA!
2026-07-12 14:14:25
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