@maxtrombly: WHEN MEN CARRY MEN - MEN THRIVE

shanekreuscher :

The second you share, you look weak to the people you’re supposed to be strong for, and they will most likely never say it, but they start to lose respect for you, especially when they see other men around them being strong like in the workplace at school or just in the world in general. Then you become pathetic to the people that you used to surround yourself with and a lot of times you won’t even realize that’s what’s going on, but then it creates distance and chaos and sometimes that’s where your partner decides that that strong coworker is more appealing than the weak man that she has at home. It’s a Catch-22 for men, and it will never change if men ever wanna be vulnerable, they have to be comfortable with the fact that they will not be respected, especially by the opposite sex.