His family is wrong for even including her .. he needs to set boundaries with his family
2026-07-22 15:43:26
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stephcerutti :
No not normal! I love my ex husband’s new fiance
2026-07-22 16:17:51
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It's Lala :
You are not wrong!....her feelings are her problem.
2026-07-22 00:02:27
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be3be33be :
My only thought - as someone who learned the hard way - is that you need to remember that you have only heard his and his family’s version of events; hers may be radically different. A gentle suggestion: approach with quiet kindness instead of assertive “my boyfriend” or presumed understanding. People with quiet kindness don’t have to establish their position.
2026-07-11 14:19:07
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catt_xxoo :
Respectfully, there are likely matters between them you are unaware of. She likely doesn’t wanna deal with him let alone you. It’s not about you.
2026-07-13 14:30:46
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Nopenothappening :
Posting here will definitely help.😂
2026-07-10 16:22:01
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Angelica :
Took the ex 5 years to be open to meeting. She definitely thought they were getting back together and also asked me if they were still together when we met. I had to clear up so much assumptions. We have never argued or been disrespectful to each other. 8 years later she thanks me for being another person who loves and cares for our child because atp he is all of ours now. She doesn't celebrate bdays with my husband and yea that would be odd. My husband would be so uncomfortable lol.
2026-07-21 15:20:42
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amyctennessee :
I feel like he needs to have a sit down with her. Put a stop to insane behavior directed towards you or him. Encourage her to move forward with her life in peace.
2026-07-21 23:57:51
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one_and_only_j.lee :
As a ex wife I want to meet the girlfriend before she meets my children.
2026-07-10 14:34:35
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Rae :
theres truly no reason to push a meeting. My ex-husbands wife never wanted to meet me, I didnt care so long as my kid was cared for in their home. We met 8 years later at my ex-husband's funeral. 🤷🏼♀️
2026-07-10 20:31:23
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Sassynani :
This is weird ,why are they celebrating their birthdays together 🙄
2026-07-16 09:02:27
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Abita Jones :
posting about it is not a cool start
2026-07-18 00:24:35
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ShellBell13 :
Maybe since it’s her birthday that they are also celebrating you should pick another opportunity to meet her. Can you celebrate your boyfriend separately? If she’s not ready to meet you I can’t imagine choosing to meet her at a birthday celebration for her is going to go over very well. I would also think it will make it very stressful for her.
2026-07-10 16:25:00
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Okkay.Kylie :
It’s very weird to have a family celebration with the ex wife and family and your bf. She is not his family anymore
2026-07-15 21:33:42
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Stacey Selwyn :
I’m all for civil co parenting relationships as a bio mum and step mum myself but his family celebrating her birthday is weird
2026-07-14 22:17:20
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TamaraL1979 :
They were likely still hooking up after the divorce and separation. Thats also why it seemed to be going so well. Also for his family to include her in a birthday celebration to celebrate her is weird.
2026-07-14 16:00:27
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Trish Maria :
Were you the other woman?
2026-07-18 14:50:35
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Sarah Michelle :
I can't wrap my mind around this... I love my ex husbands new wife, she is exactly who my ex needed and has become an incredible bonus mom to my girls. we had a rule where we needed to meet the other person before the kids do, from day one and it had to be a serious relationship. there has never been any sort of animosity but ofcourse we have butted heard a few times, we also always worked it out. It called being a grown up 😆 they even bought a house 5 mins away, so we could all remain close with the kids, because at the end of the day, thats what it's all about!
2026-07-14 13:03:01
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Jamie :
I was the ex wife and it took me a few years to really be comfortable with the new situation. I wasn’t nasty or pissed off, but I was hurt that my ex moved on so quickly and I didn’t care to spend time with my ex husband’s new girlfriend. That being said, I would exclude myself from situations where she was. I wouldn’t expect her to not go because of my struggles. Also, I did meet her, I just didn’t care to spend family time with her. My son is 15 now (he was a baby when they started dating) and we have a great relationship.
2026-07-10 15:48:56
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coffeensmalltalk :
My son gets along very well with my ex's new wife. I encourage my son to be respectful to her BUT I DONT NEED TO MEET HER. I don't hate her, I'm married but I'm just not interested in meeting her. As long as my son and her are cool.
2026-07-18 03:33:52
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user9837853342557 :
Well I’m the ex wife & the new girlfriend was my ‘friend’ prior so I really don’t have advice
2026-07-10 14:45:22
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Becki 🇨🇦 :
There is a difference between attending and meeting
2026-07-12 05:17:23
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strong-arm :
I would not have anything to do with her. I have nothing to do with my husband's ex wife.
2026-07-11 00:08:57
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Randazzo :
Be kind
2026-07-10 14:57:28
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