As someone who just hooked up w a voice note guy it’s so REFRESHING
2026-07-10 16:36:08
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critik4ul :
I prefer being respected lol
2026-07-11 12:45:56
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Daniella :
I prefer neither. Like it’s not one or the other. That’s my hot take.
2026-07-11 00:44:20
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angie_hay11 :
Yup! I would way rather someone upfront than the stuff that’s been pulled on me (very similar to your situations).
2026-07-10 13:41:25
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Rubie :
Yes!! Like there’s way worse than asking upfront people🤣 do I like it? No, but I would’ve blocked and went on with my lifeee
2026-07-14 19:27:43
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mina🌷💌 :
Not just uncomfortable but also sad? Like that happens to me too and I always get so sad that they didn’t like me after all. Just what they thought they could get out of me
2026-07-10 16:16:59
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cherylhoffman22 :
You are missing the point. He should have said what he said before the first date if that's how he felt.
2026-07-11 17:34:48
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Depressed 🇳🇬 ⚽️ 🥅 🏟️🪭fan :
Define love
2026-07-15 02:20:56
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miss lex <3 :
i prefer neither. that’s also an option. 🤷🏾♀️
2026-07-11 12:10:42
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Angelique :
I can understand why people don't love the voice note, but oml it's so much better than the other option! like I'd much rather get a voice message about it before hand
2026-07-12 19:55:39
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hydravore :
Same. Get straight to the point
2026-07-10 16:25:40
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Annabella_park :
Mind you it was after the first date so she could’ve just blocked him and hopefully did
2026-07-10 13:06:19
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𝑎𝑝𝑝𝑎𝑠𝑠𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑎𝑡𝑡𝑎𝑎︎ :
At any point in time I respect people who are upfront rather than manipulative.
2026-07-10 18:46:41
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elena :
i see where you're coming from and as someone who has had the same experience it makes me very sad that we, women, have to even discuss what kind of awful treatment we prefer. I feel so hopeless.
2026-07-10 17:48:12
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𝘖 :
It’s embarrassing that we as women have to deal with those issue in 2026 …
2026-07-14 11:06:04
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SPMETHODS :
Wow. I’m so sorry. This behavior is inconceivable and absolutely unacceptable.
2026-07-14 02:14:54
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LegalLindz :
This is so discouraging. I’m so sorry you have had these experiences! My daughter is 13, and I hate to hear that this is what she might be in for. Ty for sharing!💗🙏
2026-07-10 13:17:04
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𝄞⨾𓍢ִ໋ ੈ✩‧₊˚ :
You look phenomenal wow😮💨the hair color compliments your eyes so well
2026-07-14 23:36:22
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rebeccaherself93 :
I’m devastated but I have completely removed myself from the dating scene because of this behavior. I just won’t do it anymore.
2026-07-10 16:35:05
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blackbearrodentry :
Honesty doesn’t remove intention
2026-07-11 06:05:59
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Magnus🇸🇪 :
I have to disagree. This is not a hot take, it's completely based. I am sorry you had to go through that. I hope you find what you are looking for and get the respect you deserve. 👋
2026-07-10 14:17:59
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Janelle Steller :
I would’ve rather had him tell me that’s what he was looking for before I wasted my time on a first date.
2026-07-10 18:17:33
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batmansdaughter_ :
Voice note or not the bar is low 😭
2026-07-12 06:15:37
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Lauren Shonka :
The fact that we’ve all had such similar experiences 😣 you’re so young ((I’m 34) and it’s horrific that nothing has changed
2026-07-10 15:39:00
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yuziemadison :
Same ! Let me know what I’m dealing with
2026-07-11 03:08:06
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