Laura Lea | Breakup Coach
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Friday 10 July 2026 14:38:10 GMT
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Brit 🇬🇧 Trails :
2 years out almost and the only thing I understand is that I will never really understand. How you can love someone and they say they love you and then disappear never to speak to you again like you don’t exist. It’s got to be one off cruelest things ever.
2026-07-10 15:25:22
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Sunni :
I like cats and I like to cook so we’re not compatible apparently.
2026-08-07 22:44:46
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Rhonda🏳️🌈 :
The discard permanently changed my perception of humanity, the world, and my view of love. It really makes you question your whole reality and existence. You suddenly realize the impermanence of everything. 16 months later and I still think about it every day.
2026-07-11 00:58:53
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🌙 ✨🦇 september 🦇 ✨🌙 :
We had ZERO issues (I'm securely attached) and after 4 literally perfect months he ended things. His reason? I like football (he doesn't watch or care about sports), and he doesn't like my favorite band. Readers, he is almost 36.
2026-07-22 20:18:53
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Moonlover1106 :
My DA husband swears to everyone including our therapist he had the best childhood. He was an only child who was ignored for the most part. He can’t see it for what it is. They are incapable of seeing their own trauma and push it off to the one who is the closest to them.
2026-08-06 23:53:17
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bovary :
how do I stop please
2026-08-07 04:35:29
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a$hley🦋 :
Why do they run to another person right away
2026-07-10 15:23:36
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✨️SHANNY✨️ :
I just got discarded for challenging the Avoidant I was dating about feelings and going deeper. Because he said he loved me and wanted me to move in with him and move to Florida after only 3 months. But had never asked me a meaningful question about myself. Just surface level. I'm an empath so I feel feelings/vibes and knew something was wrong and knew I needed to push him even if it was going to be the demize of our relationship. I am happy I stuck with my intuition.
2026-08-07 20:26:12
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KyleeInProgress :
It’s so unfortunate because even hearing about avoidants tendencies trigger me. The amount of sadness and hurt I felt, being discarded is like nothing I’ve ever felt. I hope someday I can fully heal and not hold resentment in my heart. Thanks for this explanation
2026-07-10 18:28:10
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Patrisha :
So I’ve just spent 3 years of my life with a really fucked up person great
2026-08-06 17:48:58
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Beans minus Pickles :
They turned their incapacity to have tough conversation into a reason why we aren’t compatible 🙄 our communication styles aren’t different our capacity to hold discomfort and overwhelm and each others feels are different has nothing to do with compatibility
2026-07-23 14:32:53
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Sam :
So I was only seeing someone for a few months but the discard has really affected me, really disrupted my whole nervous system to be honest, I feel like I’ve completely pulled apart myself to dissect and reflect.
2026-07-11 04:12:01
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Cristy Sheppard :
This is insane. It’s my ex and everything we went through to a T! It’s like you make this post about my life! Thanks for the reminder, it’s so hard to go through a break up with an avoidant discard especially being an empath and anxious attachment. We think if we love them enough we can change them. ❤️
2026-07-16 19:34:23
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Buffey Cary :
15 days no contact as he dumped me via text with zero explanation and I was with him 7 yrs! I packed and left and I am crushed and I gave my all and he was emotionally unavailable😔🙏
2026-07-13 17:23:38
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💝 :
the shame wound!!! arrgghhh. so real. everytime you bring something up, it triggers it and shuts down because they think theyre a failure and that, to them, is embarrassing
2026-08-06 10:04:42
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fox :
If there’s so much shame, why is there so much arrogance?
2026-08-03 02:38:57
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Diskette 🌈 :
This is the worst pain I have ever felt. And I’ve been discarded two times before this one. I don’t think I will ever be the same, or believe in love the way I once did. How can you love someone, give them the kind of love & care they’ve always dreamed of, and then take it all away with no explanation, and completely disappear as if they never mattered to you? I cannot heal from this abandonment. I never saw it coming. And I truly believed that she was going to be my wife.
2026-07-12 03:49:28
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Karen Burling :
Discarding/ghosting someone is emotional abuse. Waiting on him to return prolongs the emotional abuse, and opens the door to the him using/discarding you again. It's best to block them on everything and move on, no matter how hard that
2026-07-11 21:26:28
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CYD :
this was basically a play by play of my relationship and end of
2026-07-11 06:16:37
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José :
What a sad way to live 😭
2026-07-12 20:59:22
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Nicole Moffatt :
This is step for step, word for word EXACTLY what happened to me in my most recent relationship/break up
2026-07-10 18:36:42
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user4258186105883 :
He blindsided me with a breakup and told me “you deserve better than me”, “I can’t give you what you want” then said he’d always love me and then has never spoken to me again. It’s been 3 years, he hasn’t been in a relationship since but he also acts like I never existed 🤷🏻♀️the most confusing thing I’ve ever gone through
2026-07-22 23:50:20
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Malorie :
As an avoidant who is also a therapist: yes, you can heal as I have and am in a very happy long term relationship. But it takes time and it took a lot of work for me to realize my unhealthy patterns and ways of thinking. A lot of people will never do the work and that has nothing to do with anyone but them. If I can offer some solace for those who have been hurt by an avoidant, I can say that hurt people hurt people, and genuine love given is never wasted, they probably needed it.
2026-07-14 14:27:46
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Julea108 :
Can I please ask you if I was raised in an emotionally neglectful household how come I am very empathetic towards anyone else and not a dismissive avoidant?
2026-07-10 23:28:55
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Linds :
they get bored and find the next person and leave you
2026-07-11 05:00:56
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