@alexfullofgrace: If you are arguing about where the line is, you are more concerned with making sure you feel absolved of your own guilt than you are about making sure your partner is enthusiastically consenting. This is not safe, this is not healthy, this is mot seeking clarification. We are so, so behind. #voicenoteguy #patriarchy #misogyny #dating

⫘⫘ 𝐬.𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐡 ⫘⫘ :

They’re so scared of false allegations because half of them understand they have raped someone and the consequences scare them

Mojojojo5551 :

Considering the amount of men and women who questioned what is consent, coercion and rape culture in the last two days, im convinced most men have raped someone and most women have been raped

SCOTCHBOX :

I do not like this information. I absolutely believe it.

Alex ✨ :

For further reading —> https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/08862605261432630

Annabeth :

Sigh, just realized an ex used some of these tactics 😕

chuckiechuck9 :

Stats provided by the trust me bro website 😂

MJ :

are they just bored?

Leann Grimes :

This is completely unrelated but can you please let me know what color your wall paint is 😭 I’ve been looking for this exact color

silver :

alexa 🧸ྀི :

Exactly and this is why everybody should absolutely believe that this was a tactic he was using

Benji :

People feel angry when you are misled in that way, that's normal - gaslighting, is not.

LaTisha Osborne :

not shocking

ToyotaRolla90 :

Belly Magic :

Thank you for weighing in, your insight and education is so valuable.

Sammm :

Wow

cooluser94 :

Sighluss :

The "Limitations and Future Directions" is truly illuminating. Great study, great methodology, and really well thought out.

ToyotaRolla90 :

Mixer Christian :

you just redefined coersion to be [clarification/requests/updates] instead of supporting clear communication to dismantle rape culture.

nightmare :

thank you this is exactly what I've been saying. no voice note was necessary because she said no

hanniballectershisss :

I’m actually still shocked. They’re like I ended up on the side of TikTok that was agreeing that he was a green flag like I’m so glad I’m back here. 😭

Bri🇹🇭 :

Yes. Thank you. TikTok has been suppressing my videos about this but you are spot on. Ppl are giving this man the most generous take on this and it's genuinely so concerning how far we have regressed with the consent conversation

Sioux Sioux :

Zero tolerance