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johnny :
"hey, you invited me over for dinner, and you said you didn't know what you wanted or if you wanted food at all. I want pizza." "oh, I don't want pizza, I'm not even hungry." "oh, ok, well I want pizza, so if you don't, I'm gonna go get dinner on my own." that's all this was. that's it.
2026-07-11 01:52:00
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Larry Jones 🇵🇦🇺🇸 :
I just remembered I friend called me about a similar situation. Guy was obviously only about one thing. She asked for advice. I told her he's being an jerk about things but he's being clear about it. If that's not what you're about then shut it down completely. He may decided to stop talking to you all together but that's a good thing
2026-07-10 23:02:43
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christipher christian :
Wait I’m confused Is this a euphemism
2026-07-11 04:00:34
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Mixer Christian :
It's so easy to understand this way.
2026-07-12 08:52:57
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Romanus_79🇨🇦 :
Because people have some interesting biases about sex. Maybe it's so high up on a pedastal for them that they find the idea of just doing it as casually as you might go for a coffee date is distatseful to them. And now they're projecting that.
2026-07-15 14:11:28
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Aquarius :
Dinner no longer sounds like a word
2026-07-15 17:46:05
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Best Ex :
You’re completely mischaracterizing what he said. Nobody would be angry if he said “I prioritize relationships with people who want intimacy early, so I don’t think we’re compatible.”
2026-07-17 11:15:03
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TC Lowe :
Ok, so I thought this was about dinner, and now I'm hungry. And when my autistic ass asks if you want to get food, it's about getting food. And I invited, so I'm paying. If I don't eat, I get cranky. Like a fucking toddler. And your point about making sure you have open an clear communication with your partner and/or potential partners is key. I'm still going to go find me a snack. Of the food variety.
2026-07-16 18:15:20
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carolinefrankenstein0 :
Being upset isn’t the best reaction a better reaction is “ok I’m going to leave and go get dinner then.”
2026-07-10 22:26:37
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jesusknowsball420 :
I want to know if there was another dinner that night too
2026-07-10 21:36:39
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that one guy with the hair :
some people experience being put in a position to exercise agency as threatening, as if it's a trap. it's more comfortable for these people to exist in ambiguity. I agree with you that it should be okay to just ask about things respectfully but some people hate to give an answer and don't know how to say "I don't know"
2026-07-10 19:19:51
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UU Gloria Strange :
99% agree, I just don't think the puritanical hell is gen z's making. They're reacting to a society that was made by puritanical boomera. It's time to deconstruct, for sure
2026-07-10 18:50:30
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✨Stardust✨ :
Conflating sex to a house invite is dangerous. If I say, not sure I'm hungry, but you can come hang out, watch a movie and maybe we'll have snacks. And he says, if it's not dinner, then snacks and a movie with you aren't worth it. I need dinner, I really want to make sure we like the same kind of food, so you sure you don't want dinner with me? If we don't eat now, we're never eating. Yeah, that's coercive. If he says, look, I understand you're not sure if you're hungry. I'm really into dinner, so I appreciate the offer for snacks, but I'm going to find what I'm interested in. Not coercive. One is an ultimatum, one is accepting the situation as it stands.
2026-07-13 13:09:50
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BabyGorgeous :
Because eating dinner doesn’t require access to someone else’s body
2026-07-12 15:45:18
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emilymccarron1 :
He said dinner now! Or bye! If he needed dinner on the 1st date he should say that before the 1st date! I’m sex positive, he has a better chance of getting sex if he makes that clear before the 1st date! Then no one’s time is wasted! When I’m hunger I’m very clear and up front of what I want and need to be fed! Did he even ask her what she likes to eat? Or what he likes? Actually open and honest not just demands!
2026-07-12 10:05:12
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haleydeconstructs :
Completely and totally agree! I definitely don’t think it’s Gen Z’s fault, though haha. I do think we need to mentor younger women to find what feels empowering and authentic to them. I think they’re closer to the bubble pop, and we can (and must) all learn inter-generationally.
2026-07-10 22:19:39
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Michelangelo of Hip-Hop :
😁😁😁
2026-07-30 00:19:14
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Women have consistently said they don’t like to be tricked or lied to or coerced into sex. Yeah when a guy is clear about what he would like his business is aired online and he’s vilified.
2026-07-11 05:46:47
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Clippity :
It's because sex is big evil scary that only exists to push forward the patriarchy and rape culture...or something like that 🤣
2026-07-11 00:34:18
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Dippy :
I dont trust all of these people who think that voice memo guy was manipulative or especially the people who say he could not have been seeking a deep connection because he was looking for sex. sex (can be) a part of deepening the connection. ive had deep connections that started as hookups without a date prior.
2026-07-11 00:31:26
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Illhavewaterthanks :
Any conversations around sex, especially in American culture, are always a minefield. Our puritanical origins, seesawing generational stances on it (pre-'50s was a shame culture, '60s was free love, '80s were fear of AIDS, '00s was hook up culture, etc.), and personal preferences make it impossible for a lot of people to be reasonable about it.
2026-07-12 16:21:35
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