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anneruok13 :
Girl! We have 50/50 and bio mom said it’s our Job to provide essentials and clothes for her household as well like 😳
2026-07-12 06:03:20
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Leah :
*Genuinely asking, no judgement* Can someone to me why on earth they wouldn’t want to be the one front and center, on top of all of these things? I just couldn’t ever imagine being the one to play catch up. Relying on the other parent to relay important info… Whether dad is in the picture or not, why wouldn’t you want it this way?
2026-07-13 00:02:50
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MrGreen8821 :
If it’s 50/50 why would one house do more than the others.
2026-07-14 19:55:48
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Pa-beekeeper :
Then it’s not 50/50. Document it and take it to the judge.
2026-07-15 12:32:02
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bicharoni :
or when it's 50/50 custody but one parent is paying child support and 60% of school and medical financials while the other pays 40%. And then the parent that pays 60% is actually stuck paying 100% because the other parent thinks if they ignore the 40% they owe that it will just go away
2026-07-15 12:54:25
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foxglove9999 :
They need to stop calling it that. It’s just joint. Sometimes time split is even but often it’s not.
2026-07-16 03:21:27
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Jus :
Silent repost!!
2026-07-13 12:45:17
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Raeanne Monson :
the other parent has him 8 days a month.
2026-07-14 01:50:37
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Aims :
hey girl! I hope this doesn't come across as unsolicited advice! but my SD spends half her time with us, we do a 3 night then 4 night hand over and it means we have the same week days each week (so we ALWAYS have Monday, Tuesdays and Wednesday mornings) meaning school clubs are really easy because ours always fall on our days and mum's always on hers. she does choir with her mum and sports with us. means we each pay for our own clubs and just invite one another for shows / matches. I think it works really well and might be a solution for you? xx sorry to hear your taking in the mental load it must be exhausting! the best of 50/50 should be not having to worry about all the bits and bobs xxxx
2026-07-11 20:22:01
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George-MorrisJG :
Why would you be supplying those items for the other home or be responsible for school/sports on their time? I don’t understand how that wouldn’t be worked through with the custody agreement? I’m not coming from an argumentative position just generally curious how that’s acceptable if a custody agreement is in place.
2026-07-11 20:39:49
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🫧MimikMew :
And one is always doing the dr trips and the dentist trips and enrolling in school and talking to the teachers
2026-07-13 21:46:52
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Lindsey 😃 :
4 kids, 100% of clothes and shoes they need, make sure they have adequet hygiene products for both houses, replenish the 2 girls makeups, take them for haircuts, make/take medical/dental/orthodontics. He follows the sports groups to find out sports schedules and updates. I guess even even?
2026-07-12 02:18:47
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AubreyLynn Stubbs :
It’s definitely not 50/50. We have primary mom sees them every 1,3,5 weekend Thursday- Monday every 2,4 week she gets Wednesday-Friday. But yet we are the one always replacing clothes and shoes. We do dr appt dentist appts. Mom had to take one child to the dentist and didn’t even bother making her follow up. We do sports. Her parents do the parenting when the kids are over there.
2026-07-11 20:59:55
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Manda Lee :
This is SO real!!!
2026-07-10 19:32:01
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✨Maddy✨ :
Exhausting 😩
2026-07-13 04:41:41
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paigelykins :
This!!! But instead the court gave my husband and I all the responsibility and her all the fun time. We get my stepdaughter throughout the school year (which we are so thankful for) and her mom gets every school break and the entire summer. We have to go 35 days in a row without seeing her because anytime we ask to do something with her on her mom’s time she tells us no.
2026-07-13 00:15:48
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Kwistoe12 :
you all choose who you opened up for
2026-07-15 14:15:42
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Jonathon 💜 :
50/50 with child support is the solution in these cases tbh
2026-07-10 20:16:17
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Kristi Lauren :
Facts
2026-07-12 19:04:19
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Beer_Cheese :
You can give the other parent the contact info for the school and sports info so they can keep updated on their own. You can also state that you will return the child in the clothes they came to your house in, but washed before returning and that all other belongings will remain with you. The longer you hold the other parent's hand, the worse it will get. They can adult just like you can. You cannot control what happens in their home either so if thr child misses an event on their time, document it and move on.
2026-07-11 18:07:32
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Brittany’s diary :
Yeah it should be 50/50 and it’s definitely not 🙄
2026-07-10 19:58:24
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Brin🖤 :
👏
2026-07-11 18:36:15
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Nikki Williams :
@Mykal Williams it’s more like 80/20 around here if that.
2026-07-10 22:21:34
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Anna :
🙏😚🤍
2026-07-10 20:56:02
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