Grow with Kaela
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Saturday 11 July 2026 00:02:51 GMT
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Feral Teens • Scrubs • Paws🐾 :
I've learned 2 things: 1. never have more compassion for their trauma then you have for yourself. 2. don't believe in potential over action.
2026-07-11 03:21:19
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Tiffany :
How do I recognize an avoidant in the early stages of dating?
2026-07-11 03:00:21
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Trent Merkle :
Never knew what an avoidant was until 6 months ago. Now I can tell you everything. Still ended up discarded and I’ve abandoned myself and it’s affected my health.
2026-07-12 05:39:28
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TM :
Having and holding/maintaining boundaries is exhausting
2026-07-11 03:04:33
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Lolli :
Faahhhkkkk! If I only knew!🥺Every single time I accepted less bc he was struggling, having a difficult time, sick, broke, …. he then gave even less than that. The bread crumbs finally broke me. I quit.
2026-07-12 23:39:51
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Psychic Somatics ✨ :
“They’ll experience it as permission” ugh, so true!
2026-07-11 00:23:15
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Dontworryaboutit :
My daughter told me this is why I attract losers 😢
2026-09-03 10:53:40
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SasssyLassie :
I wish they would face their attachment style & heal!
2026-07-13 05:19:59
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Coco Pacha🍒 :
I’m confused as to when to let go
2026-07-11 17:40:07
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Evolving Abroad :
😭😭😭, Why am I so nice 😭😭😭and all of this. NONSTOP TAKING.
2026-07-11 00:08:47
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StaticSynth ᥫᩣ :
100% she's absolutely right...
2026-07-11 02:27:30
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liliann916 :
I really thought something was wrong with me because I attract avoidant people. My strongest trait is my empathy, it is how I operate.
2026-07-12 11:35:06
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James Goble :
100%, I have learned this first hand over 2yrs and finally walked away and did the 21 day no contact. she tried to reach out through others but not once did she reach out herself. I did not go back this time, was hard but im so much better now. first 2 weeks were so hard.
2026-07-11 17:14:49
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hotmessexpressjordy :
It’s just hard because the second that I voice an opinion, question distance/inconsistency or establish boundaries they disappear. It has me so messed up
2026-07-12 05:12:21
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pastrichefb2 :
This. 💯
2026-07-11 12:15:33
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bucolicaholic :
A lesson I learned in the hardest way possible. No amount of reason could have made me understand this lesson. I was convinced it was a virtue.
2026-07-11 00:59:27
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Pearl :
I cut him off for 8 weeks and came back with what I will tolerate. He thanked me.
2026-07-12 22:31:21
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MJ :
Oh my so true ugh🥺
2026-07-11 02:25:53
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Pierre :
It is not fun
2026-07-14 00:45:00
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DirtyDiego2020 :
Thank you for sharing
2026-07-11 15:26:59
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Gus :
thank you
2026-07-11 14:59:39
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Ursula :
Yeah, I have done this enough.😂😂 You can still be nice without constantly putting people on pedestals of hope. Sometimes, when we are empaths, we are handholding situations where people constantly disappoint us. We actually facilitate these relationships.
2026-07-13 18:57:54
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JudyTheVet :
how the feck do you set boundaries with them? what exactly does that look like? examples pretty please 🙏🏼
2026-07-11 19:54:34
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Kathi Deutsch Charle :
How do you explain your boundaries to them without them flying away?
2026-07-18 21:37:13
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AngelicTouch777 :
I gave up. I feel good.
2026-07-11 22:17:51
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