@the.empress.podcast: An apology that includes the word "but" is just a manipulation tactic. 🛑 When someone truly regrets hurting you, their only focus is on repairing the damage. If they follow up their "I'm sorry" with a five-minute speech about why they did it, they are not apologizing—they are defending their ego. A genuine apology is about taking full accountability without trying to justify the disrespectful or toxic behavior. Stop accepting long excuses disguised as apologies. If they wanted to make it right, they would simply own their mistakes. ✔️ The word "but" completely erases the apology that came before it. ✔️ Defensiveness is a clear sign that they care more about looking right than making you feel safe. ✔️ True remorse requires changed behavior, not a long-winded story to play the victim. "People who are actually sorry don't need you to hear their side of the story first. They just want to make things right." Drop a 💯 in the comments if you are officially done accepting fake apologies! 👇 #relationshiptalk #knowyourworth #foryourpage #tiktokgrowthchallenge #trending