This is why i will not adopt even if i can afford it. What do you mean i raised you, spent so much, devoted my time and love and affection only for you to find tour bio parents and they get the credit? Hell no.
2026-07-28 14:23:36
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abril :
Even outside people make it weird. I'm adopted and I've been asked so many times "Have you never reached out?" Why would I do that? 🙄
2026-07-28 21:27:16
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Zofia :
imagine trying to have a happy family and after years of devotion your child says "I want to know my real parents" bro I am the only parent you have wtf
2026-07-28 23:19:16
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ᵃⁿᵍᵉˡα :
also, the disrespect to the people that raised them.
2026-07-14 19:18:19
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Zara :
Some biological parents don't give their children away willingly.Also not every parent wants nothing to do with their biological children.
2026-08-01 19:15:14
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haophaop00⁷ :
Whenever I see that on movies/shows, even as a kid I always wonder why do they even want to find people who dgaf about them like they are lit strangers.......
2026-07-29 02:43:54
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Malia :
As a child who got adopted at 14 month, I have no need for my biological parents except for medical history but even so I can get that from tests at a hospital. People are always shocked when I say I don’t want to find my bio parents. Like bae? They gave me up?!
2026-08-02 00:38:43
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Emily :
My grandma was adopted and she had the mentality of “they gave me up why would I want to know them?” When her bio brother tried to find her and have a relationship with her 😂 she’s like “jokes on them they got rid of me for being a girl when they need a boy to work the farm, but I grew bigger than any of my brothers did” she was an icon
2026-07-27 00:19:22
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shinon :
feels so disrespectful to your adoptive parents too like imagine being raised by a whole family and then wanting to meet some stranger who wasn't there for you your entire life
2026-08-02 09:55:45
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QD99 :
If I were adopted, I wouldn’t even want to see their faces bc they left me, but to search them???? Hell nah 😭😂
2026-07-13 14:43:11
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Hey! Emma :
My former landlady's adopted son did exact thing. he even went as far as insulting her and saying she is not his real mother(after graduating Uni) The biological mom chased him back to the adopted mom: my landlady refused to take him back😂😂
2026-07-29 05:27:03
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oxie 🐈⬛ :
Or those „I deserve answers”, yeah, maybe? But they as well don’t owe you anything anymore?
2026-07-18 07:57:20
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nkole mwaba :
or get shocked that they only want to be in touch with you to ask for money, favours or a kidney
2026-07-29 08:55:05
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Siren Saira 🔱 :
I don’t think it’s about that. They’re trying to connect the pieces of who they are and what made their bio parent choose not to raise them. Adoptees can struggle with feelings of shame and abandonment that has nothing to do with how well their adopted parents brought them up. It’s not so black and white.
2026-08-01 14:41:09
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Bluskies :
The coping mechanism in the comments is insane. Also I see people always mentioning how they found/want to find their bio parents but never mention anything about the parents who actually took time and money to raise them, how ungrateful
2026-07-22 08:34:30
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Daria Kudryavtseva :
When i was little there used to be a weird amount of movies, stories about children finding out they are adopted and then hating their adoptive family for that
2026-07-29 10:05:05
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jakephillips :
That's why I won't be adopting any kids unless I know the parents are dead.
2026-07-31 19:10:00
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Unfinished.okay :
ppl gave to much credit for blood line, i'm not adopted and people criticize me because i don't keep contact with my bio
2026-08-01 19:07:32
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ShiverWolf Rants 🐺❄️ :
Is it bad I wanna adopt a child when im older? I dont like the idea of getting pregnant
2026-07-29 08:02:25
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Munroe_O :
This is one of the reasons why i couldn't adopt. The child has every right to want to search for their bio family, and they deserve adoptive parents who would fully support them in that journey. I just don't think it's sth I could handle.
2026-07-28 20:45:26
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bullwinkle35 :
I feel like parents who adopt out their children should write a letter that the adoptive parents can give to the person when they are older, just a letter saying whether they would want to see the child later on or not, why they choose to give up the baby, ect, just a completely honest letter even if it says I have no regrets and no desire to see you.
2026-07-28 22:02:04
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Sanctiti :
As an adoptee who knew their bio mom. I hid from her in the kitchen of a restaurant I was working at. 😭
2026-07-29 02:51:27
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id0ntexist5 :
Respectfully, if I’m willingly giving up my child for adoption, I will check off the no contact option. Your adoptive parents deserve the praise and recognition.
2026-07-28 20:18:23
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Misspopcoin :
i understand wanting answers, but closed adoptions are closed for a reason.
2026-07-28 22:38:35
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Morgan | Bimboy :
Even as a kid it annoyed me when ppl asked me if I wanted to find my bio parents. Now why on gods green earth would I look for a stranger?? Idgaf about these people
2026-07-18 19:01:15
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