@migrain3destroyerr: i’m calm here but gaslighting never gets easier to take from medical professionals. i sobbed after this #myalgicencephalomyelitis #mecfs

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missmacpluspack
MissMac+Pack :
always. always. always. every. single time. record ALL first time interactions with medical providers and in emergency rooms if you can. as a chronically ill/disabled person you will NEVER be believed.
2026-07-12 19:44:29
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alt90sgurl
alt90sgurl :
I went the the hospitals website, to Tanesha Kemble, NP page. I couldn't click on and read her reviews. 🤔
2026-07-14 16:12:22
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academicmutiny
Jess :
Definitely report it, even if you don’t think they’ll do anything.
2026-07-11 16:05:43
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raisedcarefree
raisedcarefree :
no shame in sharing their name and protecting others in the community. I'm so sorry you went through that.
2026-07-12 00:51:58
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s.kygaze
Skygaze :
This is why I don’t like being alone with nurses. The amount of times they’ve taken it upon themselves to play doctor and try to decide whether I deserve the care THE ACTUAL DOCTORS ORDERED is insane. Thank god my mom is well versed in healthcare plus she’s also disabled so she always advocated for me when I couldn’t, even as an adult. Kind nurses seem to be a rare species at this point.
2026-07-23 01:25:24
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cathy.cook50
Cathy Cook :
Release it. Report her to the state board of nursing and her employer
2026-07-22 13:11:17
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brainwitch13
Dr. Bales :
She did not ask for prior doctor notes?
2026-07-12 22:59:58
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greenvelvetpants
GreenVelvetPants :
I am so sorry this happened to you. The amount of energy she forced you to expend as an ME/CFS patient in order to receive care is cruel. If you are comfortable sharing, what kind of infusions are you getting? I’m always looking for treatments to try for this awful disease.
2026-07-11 20:57:24
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noneya540
Not Here :
Find out who her supervising physician is (it should be on the visit summary note within a couple of days of your appointment) message them directly and tell them that she was not familiar with your diagnosis and not at all prepared for your appointment. Fill out the patient survey when you receive it in your email and share your exact experience. Lastly, you should call the office explain that you were unable to complete your appointment and see when they can get you in with a different practitioner to review your meds so you can get your infusion. When you do get a new appointment message the provider ahead of time explaining your condition and that the majority of the appointment needs to be lights off so that you don’t go into a flare, in the future I suggest having the light on at the beginning of the appointment (2-3 min) so they can verify your identity and then promptly turn everything off.
2026-07-12 08:22:57
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thebenevolentdictator
thebenevolentdictator :
Report to Mount Sinai but also the state board. You’re going to get a letter from MS (I’m sure you know this) that says “we’re so sorry you felt that way”, but you won’t be the only one who has/will report her and it adds up. Also fill out the patient satisfaction survey, they care about those.
2026-07-12 02:18:23
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kimdimsum
MPen :
Report to Mount Sinai, state board, and nursing union, all sent as an independent email not cc. Then request to have a patient advocate to be with you for your first couple of trips until the medical team recognizes and respects your disability accommodations.
2026-07-12 04:02:56
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matthew__2000
matthew__2000 :
Hey so all those medical calls are recorded, you can pursue legal action or report her to your states board
2026-07-12 22:55:16
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sugarhoneybooboo
Sugar honey :
During a video doctor appointment I mentioned how bad my head hurt and that I was light sensitive and she told me to go sit in the dark. So it’s not a big deal. Definitely a power trip. I’m so sorry you had to endure that behavior.
2026-07-11 17:43:39
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pierce0m
pierce :
oh love that call is recorded. report immediately and ask for a record of the call in writing 💔
2026-07-15 06:21:35
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copingwithbrooks
copingwithbrooks :
The gaslighting and dismissal never ends
2026-07-12 01:56:36
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laurieshay
Laurie Shay :
report her to the state board of nursing! they can pull that Recorded video.
2026-07-15 16:40:14
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timothyweed
Timothy Weed :
I know someone higher up at Siani. sending this to them..
2026-07-14 11:27:14
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halfblinddog
🧟‍♂️Dead Eddie🧟‍♂️ :
I don’t have light sensitivity to this extreme but it’s still there and my family always judges me for dimming the lights but it genuinely hurts to have normal, bright lights
2026-07-11 22:55:26
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heyleehah
haley :
i’m so sorry :( this is ridiculous
2026-07-11 16:01:11
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user8151090443266
sistasisii :
its a cms violation to not be able to visualize a patient during a physical examination
2026-07-13 02:40:55
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_kat89_
. :
this is horrid I'm so sorry 💕
2026-07-11 19:36:56
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cardamom.rose.tea
Cardamom.rose.tea ☭ :
Report anyway. That’s absolutely not ok.
2026-07-12 17:58:23
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pinkiedti
𝑝𝑖𝑛𝑘 :
it really breaks my heart that this disbelief and essentially laughing at us is just so prevalent. and no one besides us sees any issues with it. :(
2026-07-11 21:37:50
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peanutbutter_waffle
🖤Smashlee🤍 :
I feel like saying photophobia makes it sound like it's just a fear
2026-07-13 01:40:57
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