I remember in HS as a sophomore massive nerd, I had a crush on a senior jock. It was obvious, but I never approached him, just looked at him way too long, giggled with friends, blushed if he looked my way. I had class with one of his best friends, the best friend pulled me aside in class one day and asked if I had a crush on the boy. I blushed and said yes. He told me, while he appreciates it, it’s a no. Crush stopped immediately. I respected the no immediately and instantly stopped those behaviors. But the whole thing made me realize both boys were good people. You don’t have to be cruel or hateful with rejection. They were kind and respectful. He wasn’t outraged at a nerd liking him, he just had a friend approach me with respect and tell me no. And I respected that no.
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wiatrodeo :
Yes they absolutely do lol
2026-07-12 06:45:30
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Scott's Spare Name :
Its a compliment either way to a guy
2026-07-12 19:28:44
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Steve knight :
To be fair, we just take it as a compliment
2026-07-13 00:52:31
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JDSeraphim :
I’m definitely very kind to girls. What’s the point? We’re all human beings, and deserve to be treated kindly.
2026-07-11 22:25:37
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lucian :
Disagree I get offended
2026-07-11 18:01:26
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Romeo Kilo Bravo :
I’m a straight male and a gay guy approached me in the gym. I wasn’t offended, hell I was flattered and a bit amused by it. 😁
2026-07-14 18:39:29
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skylar :
no, i do
2026-07-11 19:58:46
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ethereal 🧙♀️ :
am i being gaslit rn ? lmao i feel like it’s completely the opposite…
2026-07-12 22:07:06
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Ascended_At _Last :
im a chud so I panic when I have to reject someone because I know how it feels.
2026-07-12 22:03:44
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Mark :
Yeah they do. Seen it happen both ways too many times. Both will think they are too good. I mean… anybody remember JR high or high school or college? It happens all the time
2026-07-12 14:19:11
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Allie :
i’m just confused on how you could possibly know that this doesn’t happen? i agree it’s probably less common, but instead of getting angry at you, they make fun of you and tell all their friends. which happens to everyone.
2026-07-12 18:19:39
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Lillith Mcintire :
sure buddy
2026-07-11 21:46:26
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🌚 :
Rare W take 😭
2026-07-11 17:51:53
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Tina Cherry :
that's crazy. best thing is to kindly say no and that you're not interested, and thank them for their effort and bravery, it's a good sweet kindness that people don't forget.
2026-07-12 23:08:33
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Shaurya Gill :
facts
2026-07-11 15:36:13
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keeperofthecoop1 :
Lol ok sparky
2026-07-11 20:25:36
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harr9477 :
Hint: if you said something to them and they got mad- ITS A SKILL ISSUE.
2026-07-11 19:42:42
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Brian Schweidenback :
This is so true
2026-07-12 15:08:43
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M :
lies lol
2026-07-12 08:01:45
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Lilianna Passut 🖤☁️ :
that is literally the opposite
2026-07-12 21:27:19
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Sus_304 :
yeah i know that's a lie
2026-07-12 07:33:48
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NotSerious😒 :
No i definitely do, it’s genuinely gut wrenching and disrespectful
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