@itsjenisecheyenne: Leaving a voice memo was an interesting choice but he’s not wrong for stating his intentions beforehand In the words of a wise woman “if you don’t like it you can leave” 🗣️💯 #men #women #relationships #moderndating #voicememoguy
its so weird to me that voice note ended up on the internet...
2026-07-12 05:35:54
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Alex :
was it different? yes. was it wrong? no.
2026-07-12 15:26:19
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MakotoWhite :
Nah voice memo guy was wrong lol
2026-07-11 23:59:16
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Caren A Golian, MS, LPC :
The bar for men is so low these days. They want to “check out” sexual compatibility on the first or second date. When do we figure out if we’re compatible in terms of values, life vision, financial goals, kids, marriage, interests, mindset, etc? After we’ve slept together? I’ve met many men like this and they’re a dime a dozen. Glad he was “honest” but let’s not normalize this horrid behavior, which lacks any sense of valuing a woman beyond being a sex object. It’s grossly disrespectful.
2026-07-15 06:55:15
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Parker :
am I weird for thinking meeting at someone's house it's weird for a second date?
2026-07-11 20:20:06
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Ricthelle :
Mind you he told her after the first date and she gave an ambiguous answer plus invited him over.
2026-07-11 20:49:50
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That guy David :
I don’t understand why people wanna work through incompatibility when they see it early on in the dating process.
2026-07-11 20:46:04
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Chi chi ✨ :
I listened to the voice memo and honestly…..I see both sides. So imma sit this one out
2026-07-12 06:40:27
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Jesse McBride :
being invited over has connotations in a relationship, especially early on. I'm glad he sent the message before instead of being in person like you said
2026-07-11 19:13:11
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WakoGeek :
I wanna know why she even agreed to a second date if on the first date he expressed a relationship she DOESN’T WANT
2026-07-11 21:00:51
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kat.cemetery :
What i said in another comment on another creator’s video who was saying its coercion. “From what i seen an ultimatum is you do it or its end all. Example: work harder or loser your job. From what i saw, he said he wanted sex on the second date and that was basically the conclusion i got from the voicemail i heard. He was stating his intentions, his boundaries, and what he wanted. I agree his wording is uncomfortable and he had an arrogant tone to him, maybe even condescending. But stating your intentions is not an ultimatum. If she did not want to have sex on the second date, she can decline, and move on. People are making this bigger than it truly needs to be. There does not need to be a think piece about it. Aside his wording and tone, i genuinely dont see what was wrong with him saying what he wanted and his intentions. And thats how i feel on the matter. You can have yours. I truly do not care either way. I think people are bored and need views.”
2026-07-14 11:07:48
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Sonicxis4ever :
It’s also nobody business but theirs.
2026-07-16 03:19:57
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Meepian :
I’m still trying to figure out how is it an ultimatum cause that would only be possible if some type of relationship was already established albeit friendship or a dating one
2026-07-11 18:16:38
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Nisha-Nisha :
Its weird that he went on a date without stating his intentions on his profile or messaging her this important information. While I respect him for saying this, as we say in corporate, "It could've been an email." 😂
2026-07-12 15:09:39
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PorterB🐝🥥🆘🇺🇸 :
He did ask her in person tho… memo was at least the second time he asked but not the first
2026-07-13 13:47:01
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Boss Babe Jas :
I agree he wasn't wrong for stating his intentions and then leaving it up to her. The problem is how long the voice memo was. Cringe. He could have gotten his point across in a more concise way.
2026-07-16 02:50:13
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Less2bSaid :
Is this rage bait?!
2026-07-15 17:39:25
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King James 👑 :
They always say they want honesty until they actually get it lol
2026-07-16 02:12:07
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Sean Dekoda Phillips :
I feel like people need to sit with the fact that, this was BEFORE the second date. and the date was supposed to be at her house. saying no and leaving was an option. he did this BEFORE there were any emotional attachments. saying this after 3 months, would be worse.
2026-07-11 21:43:44
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Nana :
Consent can’t be guaranteed ahead of time lol what is wrong with y’all
2026-07-14 17:36:33
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relia800 :
He made his intentions clear , just say yes or no
2026-07-12 04:26:01
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🦩 Kim loves 🖖🏻 🦖 and 🍃 :
he did ask in person though... he said that in the beginning of the message. she already said "I dont know about that"
2026-07-12 21:14:07
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Liyah 96 :
I’d rather him lmk upfront for sure then to find out in a different way
2026-07-11 20:37:28
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C0UP3✌🏽 :
He told her what he wanted and gave her the option to decline. I don’t see what’s wrong with it
2026-07-12 16:32:27
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Lucious wilbourn :
why are we having second dates at the house?? am i missing something?
2026-07-12 15:25:06
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