@faithyvcarter: I have a confession…I use to punch holes in my walls. 🫣 Yup. When my son was exactly my daughter’s age I would go from 0 to 100 with no idea how to process the intense deregulation I would feel…then POP 💥 which only disregulated him even more. Now 5 years later, my daughter is at the exact same stage he was and guess what? Those very same feelings bubble up inside me… BUT I am learning to use tools 🛠️ that I did not have before… When a gazelle escapes being chased by a lion its body shakes for 1-2 minutes, then it is able to go right back into grazing, with no residual stress from the situation that it just experienced. Dancing, moving and shaking our bodies feels silly, especially when we’ve been tight, clenched and locked up all day (that’s me🙋🏻♀️). But it not just releases feel good hormones in your brain, when YOU are dancing, playing and regulating your own nervous system it is CONTAGIOUS and will regulate theirs. #emotionalregulation #dance #somatics #parenting #coregulating
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LifewiththeJacksons :
I walk round the room pretending to sniff saying ooo what’s that smell , my 2 year old follows suit forcing those deep breaths without her knowing, calm is restored , hope she doesn’t catch on 🤣 gonna try this too looks like great regulation
2026-07-12 13:43:11
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Vessling :
As an oldest daughter seeing this I started crying. I wasn’t allowed to be upset around my mom. That little girl is going to know you’re safe. Thank you. From one girl to another. You’re doing amazing.
2026-07-12 19:02:23
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Charlie 🪴 :
Her in future arguments or times of stress
2026-07-12 10:38:39
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fortheloveofyin :
Do we dance to their screaming or put some music on?
2026-07-12 09:49:06
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mellamoalejapues :
😭 noted. I want to never scream or scare them.
2026-07-11 20:43:35
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emma ❀ :
This reminds me of that song “I hope you dance” 🥹❤️🫶🏼
2026-07-11 20:26:24
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Karla Carillo :
literally do yourѕelf a favor and read Hеr dominant еra by amy sage
2026-07-13 20:20:41
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Emily Downey :
Dancing it out like Meredith and Christina iykyk
2026-07-13 18:47:43
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Darilin Maria :
I actually really love this, instead of overwhelming yourself you done it out and she follows ❤️this is beautiful, going to start doing this. Being a mom doesn’t is an everyday learning experience
2026-07-11 18:24:39
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shelly’s cozy coffee & carbs :
This is how it’s done. ✅
2026-07-13 16:21:24
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JustJexx🇨🇦|Healing 🍄🌱 :
Well done Momma 💛
2026-07-13 17:06:40
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HeatherVickery :
This is brilliant
2026-07-13 15:19:43
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Sadie Golden :
I love this
2026-07-13 17:17:13
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tk. :
Just… Dance it out 🙂↕️
2026-07-12 10:56:38
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bridget.newman26 :
I do this too! Now when my 2 year old is crying he runs to me saying “you wanna dance?” Depending on what his tantrum is about we either do a high energy dance or slow dance and he melts into my shoulder as we sway. It’s the cutest thing ever.
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Inversion Therapy :
sometimes I just lay on the floor and let them come to me like the tide. I needed to be grounded anyway, come here my little waves and we will wash over each other
2026-07-12 11:36:56
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Lisa 🇨🇦 :
I wish I could have a do-over with my girls. they deserved a mom who would dance it out instead of yelling 🥺
2026-07-13 16:39:42
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thrdhrd :
Love this! With teens, go on long walks with them no phones & no pressure, natural chats. It’s calming and unifying. Sooo many benefits
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