@anxiouslyalej: PART TWO: Why a man resents the woman he secretly wants. The third reason is scarcity. When you feel out of reach it raises your value, but it also triggers his anxiety and his bitterness, so instead of pursuing you he copes by convincing himself he never wanted you in the first place. Every woman has lived this exact moment, the one where he asks you out, you turn him down, and he suddenly decides "I didn't even like you anyway," when the truth is you were the woman he wanted more than anything. But here is the kicker. The moment his circumstances change, so does his entire attitude, because you stop being a threat to his ego and become proof of his success. You were the same the whole time. What changed was how he felt about himself. Comment below if you have experienced this Keywords: I didn't even like you anyway, why men act like they don't like you, scarcity and attraction, men resent women they want, why men neg, insecure men dating, male psychology, status and attraction, dating advice for women, relationship psychology, dating in your 30s #relationships #datingadvice #womensdatingadvice #datinginyour30s

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