@jenwolf86: Unpopular opinion: if you don’t prioritize your health, we’re not compatible. This has nothing to do with six-packs or body fat. It has everything to do with discipline, consistency, and lifestyle. The gym isn’t a hobby for me, it’s part of who I am. I want someone who matches that energy. Agree or disagree? 👇#relationshipgoals #DatingOver40 #girlswholift #fitafter40 #GymTok

Lil’ A :

I’m on the train. You can make a stop here

Don Prn :

You need someone as “locked in” as you are. Just can’t explain the feeling. It’s not to be messed with! ✌🏽

Mick :

Is home gym a red red flag?

Dave :

I don't go to gym. work out in my living room every morning. mostly bodyweight exercises. I am locked in to disciplines. What I eat, when I eat. prioritize proteins.out of bed every day before 4 am. in bed by 9pm most days.

user6471175874837 :

Doesn't sound shallow at all, you like what you like. No offense taken.

Sleepy Marine :

Facts for sure

Knock :

so true life style

bubsbubs15 :

I might be making a mistake here, but I’m assuming you’re saying you just want the person to work out. People can go to a gym, but the gym is not necessary to work out.

RC_Duvall :

I go, I go.. I swear! 😂

soobaroo :

If you don’t take care of yourself I can’t get interested. Doesn’t matter if you run, bike, swim, walk, lift or any combination. If you don’t move we aren’t compatible

Eddie :

Can’t prove you wrong because you’re not wrong. Don’t compromise.

Chuck :

I go to the gym and like a woman that does also. But I do find it odd that women will pop on social media and make a post about how it's a requirement.

seanmathews372 :

Meh

Nick :

agreed

Dexter Haymore :

don't have to go to a gym to workout and take care of yourself....

Steffen :

Tommy de :

only way to find out is to meet and see. but that why there has to be gives and takes in a relationship.

Keith :

iam not asking for any problems but I agree with the gym . it's my life outside of work. I was unhealthy never really fat but just drinking cigarettes poor diet . now it's my church

Dan :

Nothing wrong with that, I battle with that internally because it does sound shallow but I have made that lifestyle change it's tough to be with someone who isn't putting in the work. I wanna look good for myself but also the other person, personally I want them to do the same.

Blue Collar Bougie :

Ok. It’s not shallow. But what makes going to the gym important? What if he is into health and wellness but he gets a great workout at his job, or at home ? Not an argument just a discussion

Jaguar🔥Spirit :

manifest a billion, Queen. you're strong and independent. 🤟🔥😎

Hennypenny :

ohh well...I'm over it......

Eric Hosack :

It’s about lifestyle. I don’t go to the gym anymore because I don’t like the atmosphere these days but I workout all of the time.