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equality is everything :
something we are not talking about IS The fact that Voice memo should never have reached The internet
2026-07-12 11:57:53
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Colleen ⭐️ :
Was it weird? Yes. Was he wrong? No.
2026-07-12 13:06:36
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WesternNCDemSocialist :
not having tact is not the same as being coercive or manipulative
2026-07-12 10:18:12
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SeeEmSheer :
She was angry when rejection became a possibility.
2026-07-12 11:30:38
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Hazel :
….youre giving him WAY too much grace
2026-07-14 11:10:03
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Pelleaz :
I just think that people are so obsessed with wanting directness and honesty and then HATEEEE having to deal with what directness and honesty is like
2026-07-13 16:39:59
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user736748932772900 :
No, that voice memo was creepy and wrong
2026-07-20 10:45:56
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Dre :
I’m getting called a bird for saying this lmao
2026-07-12 08:47:43
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thebougiemonster :
Rejection still feels like rejection, even if it’s somebody you didn’t like. 😂. Attention and validation is a helluva drug.
2026-07-12 12:25:02
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Earl Kracktor :
It seems there's quite a few people that are upset he didn't date the way they think he should have dated. He set a boundary based on his expectations and wants from a relationship and people are saying he shouldn't have done that and he's not allowed to do that.
2026-07-12 07:54:49
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Grecyn :
This was ideal conversation for me as an autistic woman
2026-07-12 17:32:48
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Anonymous_baddie :
You don’t have to have sex to know if you’re compatible btw
2026-07-14 14:04:27
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Toursites :
Was it absurd? Oh YES HONEY!! Was it honest and direct??? DEFINITELY YES!!! Two things can be true at the same time 🥰
2026-07-12 17:03:08
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metab1tch :
He removed ambiguity entirely. That’s not disrespectful, that is claaaarity. We all need clarity.
2026-07-13 01:20:59
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Joy Von Alchemist :
He literally told her “if you do not want to have sex with me , I don’t see the point in hanging out with you” …. Genuinely wtf are we talking about guys .
2026-07-14 15:13:32
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Mara Nix (she/they) 🖤💜🤍💛 :
Sure, except it wasn’t a question, and it was framed in a pretty gross way. It wasn’t “is this something you’re interested in?” It wasn’t even “this is what I’m interested in, I’d like for us to be on the same page about that” It was “if you’re not interested in this, then you’re a waste of my time” and that’s just not a super healthy approach or mindset
2026-07-14 04:22:55
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Holistic Professor :
I listened to the voice message. wow, uh. I'm not sure we should be blaming het women for all that. we're not at the point of calling them controlling. his demand to have sex on the second date was unreasonable. it makes it clear his priorities were in sex itself, not getting to know each other. it was pretty bad form, and I think this dude would do better with a friends with benefits situation rather than a "dating" situation. it wasn't a problem with delivery or whatever, gus priorities are just skewed. should have been more honest with himself about that before wasting someone's time with dates. 🤷♂️
2026-07-15 05:47:24
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Mari 🍵 :
With the memo aside, I think you’re touching on a very big issue that I see as a therapist and sometimes even in my own personal relationships and have since made adjustments once I identified the patterns but a lot of people don’t realize they are managing and or soothing their own emotions through control and the need to dictate/influence others’ desires and or decisions. We say that we want authentic, mature relationships but those require all individuals to actively consent constantly and navigate their own self concept fully, regardless of how it leaves us feeling or not feeling. Compliance and performance only leads to misalignment, resentment, and harm.
2026-07-13 19:56:20
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lexilocs_ :
It was wrong. Honesty can deff be harmful.
2026-07-12 21:00:15
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xDaniChex :
the issue is - in the voice note he acknowledges he already brought it up and already got her answer - which we dont exactly know what it was but sounded let she needed more time. So to ask AGAIN isnt getting an answer - its trying to push for a different answer by creating pressure.
2026-07-12 21:18:16
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Jessica 📚🎮❤️🔥 :
She wanted him to come to her home and perform self control for her, while she’s sending mixed signals, to prove he is good, instead of observing him to learn about his character.
2026-07-14 14:09:34
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joan :
either way dating worked..... bingo!!!
2026-07-12 05:51:24
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Kel1 :
Right bc why would you INVITE him to your house to pick up for date #2???!!!
2026-07-12 08:34:10
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X :
I am a woman that prioritizes sex and have dated men that also think it’s very important. There is a huge difference between “hey sex is important to me and I’m not willing to date someone that doesn’t also prioritize it” vs “we HAVE to have sex if I come over or else it’s not worth it” his message made it so that if she agreed she would be in a very uncomfortable place to say “no” if she changed her mind. A big part of intimacy and consent is the feeling of safety, he already set up a dynamic that makes saying no significantly more uncomfortable and that’s not healthy or proper sexual etiquette. So no it’s not that we don’t care about compatibility it’s that we care about sexual safety for women
2026-07-15 00:19:52
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