@thealexgreaner: One woman’s outcome doesn’t automatically become the best advice for every other woman. If it worked for you, that’s genuinely great. But if we’re giving advice, we should ask a different question: What gives the average woman the best chance of finding a man with integrity, kindness, competence and genuine long-term intentions? That’s a much more useful conversation than arguing over exceptions. The goal isn’t to judge anyone’s choices. The goal is to help more people build healthy, lasting relationships