@opallauryn: Most days I feel like a stranger to myself too, but I’ll find my way home. I know it. #breakup #infidelity #betrayaltrauma #relationships #healing

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gigglezgamez
The Glitter Fairy 🏳️‍🌈🍉🇺🇦 :
I used to look at photos and feel so much love. And now when I look at it, I remember that immense love that I had felt for him, but the grief knowing that love is no longer there. Not like it was before.
2026-07-12 15:02:48
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tom.foolery053
Tom Foolery :
I think your experience is common when you’ve gone through a relationship ending betrayal. They are a lot of ways to be betrayed by someone you love. I suppose infidelity is the most common. All betrayers become strangers after the betrayal is revealed.
2026-07-12 15:03:06
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wonhoneybopp
Sof :
i deleted all the photos on my phone but have some on my computer. The last time I saw them I was like "I was happy and really loved him, while for him maybe this meant nothing". At the end my love for him was real and I'm happy I felt it. And now I'm happy I didn't end up with him.
2026-07-12 16:59:30
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eleynaley_
leyna :
thank you so much for sharing you journey. I hope you know that this has been so helpful in my healing to know my feelings are valid and "normal" I'm not the only one feeling them.
2026-07-12 18:02:09
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_thejoeyshow
THE_Joey_Show :
He became a stranger as soon as he started lying. For me - he lied from the beginning and I never knew him even 7 years in. Now he feels like a stranger on a true crime show. My son looks a lot like him. 😥 Grief. Glad we’re allowing ourselves to feel it.
2026-07-12 14:49:31
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chikfromperth
ChikfromPerth :
oh i hear you. my relationship over after 23 years. what you are describing is how I feel. growth through grief. I am 2 years post blinsided breakup & it is fair to say my ex is someone I dont recognise anymore. I am stronger than I ever thought was possible. tc of you.
2026-07-12 14:56:56
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s_am_g1
Luna Knight633 :
I have pictures like this too… sometimes I think that version of me was trying to have some kind of understanding of that version of him. Neither of us knew each other at all even after 5 years…
2026-07-12 14:49:56
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reannamayf
Reanna | Solo Life 🌻 :
It's so weird. Pictures of us feel like they are superimposed like they aren't real
2026-07-12 17:21:02
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maxbrunet075
Max |Overall Oaf| AuDHD 🇨🇦💄 :
Coming to terms with the fact we loved people that never existed is quite the odd revelation, isn't it?
2026-07-14 13:05:21
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marathonbroski
marathonbroski :
I remember this happened to me once. It was the realization that so much of what made me the person I am today is because of a person I don’t even recognize anymore. It wasn’t sad, just a weird marker of time.
2026-07-13 11:00:09
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