Arien Malik
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Sunday 12 July 2026 15:28:25 GMT
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AMBASSADOR NEL🕊 🌟 :
majority of use slip.. but the ability to quickly adjust will reveal our intelligence.
2026-07-17 14:53:38
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Juditpearl 💎✨💟 :
After I complain about it …he’d say “I’m sorry about that”. Then he goes silent on me …comes back and act like nothing happened and if he sense a hesitation from me because I’m still hurt from what he did he’ll go back to silent treatment
2026-07-17 21:44:06
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SiLLY :
Everytime I brought something up it ended in being ghosted for 1-2 days 🥲😅
2026-07-13 03:11:32
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princessqueennnn_ :
Defensiveness and invalidating my feelings..
2026-07-14 17:40:57
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#40and up representing kika :
Flip it on you every time
2026-07-14 21:51:30
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raqwithjesus :
Set a boundary and see how they handle you enforcing it…
2026-07-14 23:08:52
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ThuliTheBossbabe❤️ :
He apologizes immediately and doesn't defend it. rectifies it with actions and when I'm calmer and ok, he then explains why it happened, only if the explanation is necessary for me to understand or we move and forget it. Great part is he doesn't repeat 🥰
2026-07-14 19:52:55
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MaKhondlo :
Gave me silent treatment after
2026-07-15 11:21:34
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Hay :
Preach! Needed to hear this 😮💨
2026-07-12 16:13:29
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Shant' :
Only 30 days and I’m DONE for this exact reason… 3 days no contact and counting!! 💯
2026-07-14 19:27:45
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Azra‘s Lifejourney :
I agree 🫱🏻🫲🏽🫱🏻🫲🏽
2026-07-15 16:42:13
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† Donna :
Pretty much everybody in their 50s and up 😅
2026-07-15 15:47:19
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softlifeera :
Sent a text was totally ignored
2026-07-14 17:03:40
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Trevion ☺️❤️ :
I needed this reassurance!!
2026-07-12 17:11:49
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NalediM :
my ex husband just grew old, but didn't grow up. zero EQ
2026-07-16 06:51:10
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B :
Agreed. Hate when I’m vulnerable with someone I thought I could be only for them to not be mindful and when I addressed her she got totally defensive and stopped talking to me.
2026-07-12 17:58:57
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Ollivier :
He was dismissed and trying to gaslight me because I’m reacting of his lies crazzyyy 😭
2026-07-15 08:39:19
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MsPmotivates💜 :
Absolutely, this just happened to me. I regret having the conversation, a bunch of excuses, deflecting, and blaming me. I'd rather end the friendship.
2026-07-12 19:50:02
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Palesa Madi :
dont regret voicing when something bothers you
2026-07-13 08:25:28
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Miamonet :
This is a great way to test it 💯
2026-07-12 17:30:38
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Boss Lady :
oh that defensive is the number one word
2026-07-14 02:11:16
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Jacqueline :
Accountability! 💯
2026-07-13 00:54:50
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LTN | Fragrance Architect 🇭🇹 :
THISSSSSSSSSS
2026-07-15 04:25:49
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Hadijah@Mom :
as soon as they say but, BLOCKED
2026-07-14 21:18:00
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platedbydee :
Yessss👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
2026-07-14 19:54:10
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