noir_in_retrograde
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Sunday 12 July 2026 17:14:18 GMT
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user3689961544215 :
Basically walking her thru your idea, completely with finances, housing, changing medical doctors and insurance plans is essential to put her at ease on the idea of a big move like this. Only because this is huge to having her comfortable to transition.
2026-07-14 09:37:45
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Angela R :
Mother-daughter relationships are complex from womb to tomb.
2026-07-14 01:17:16
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Blue Persephone :
Good luck! That sounds hard
2026-07-14 08:27:17
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SKV :
I’m sorry! That’s a tough one 🥺
2026-07-13 04:01:29
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TNmomma :
Prayers!!!
2026-07-13 02:22:21
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Sis :
Prayers for you all 🙏
2026-07-14 00:52:13
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Brenda :
Even just acknowledging what you said is a HUGE identity crisis for mom. Brings up even more fear of losing her autonomy-which is terrifying and really difficult to admit to yourself, much less admit to your adult kid. (I have an adult son, and my mom’s in the same situation as yours). Losing your independence, even if it’s just a perceived loss, is extremely traumatic, especially if you’re a woman who’s fought hard it. Fwiw, I’ve had these discussions with my mom-and she’s STUBBORN as hell-my advice is to keep talking with her, ask a lot more questions about what’s behind the resistance—my mom finally admitted some vulnerabilities that helped me and my brother know how to support her thru those and come up with a solution together. Just making her feel “heard” went a long way in convincing her to make a change.🙏🙏🙏
2026-07-12 18:18:28
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Brenda Mehlin :
It’s a tough situation. No one wants to move away from all that they know. And it’s hard for people to admit they can no longer be independent. We moved my husbands mother after her husband passed away. She lived in the new home 3 months and she passed away. I will always think we should have let her be. We uprooted her from everything she knew and she was so unhappy. Be gentle and understanding. Treat her like you want your kids to treat you when it’s your time to be old. I’m 73 and I can tell you old age sucks.
2026-07-13 15:10:58
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Candace M :
In the same boat with our parents right now! So stressful.
2026-07-12 22:17:50
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AngelPetals :
Maybe not TELL her but ask her… tell her your concerns.
2026-07-13 13:05:08
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SsRi :
i feel for you
2026-07-13 11:16:29
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niklend :
Praying for you and your family
2026-07-12 19:10:54
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🌙Moonlight beauty🌹 :
I pray to god she gets better may Allah protect her health and bring her comfort and ease 🌹
2026-07-12 18:49:36
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happycat.sf :
I'm sorry, this is so hard to deal with. Try not to take it personally that she doesn't listen to you. Most parents don't. I'm a cardiology RN, & my dad & I were best of friends, but when he got older, he stopped listening to me too. It's a fear issue more than any mistrust in you, they get frightened of losing control, so they seize control of anything & everything they still can. Good luck. And don't expect help from your brother, neither of mine lifted a finger to help, even when I begged for help. If you don't expect help, you will be less disappointed when he doesn't give you any.
2026-07-12 17:36:21
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Lin.jones💙❌🌴☮️🎶 :
Sweetheart I’m so sorry for the struggles. Let us know how it goes. ❤️❤️❤️My dad is doing same thing and I’ve had to FINALLY say I’m not ever going there 😳long story bc he’s the bad bad narc who won’t consider planning
2026-07-12 17:51:22
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Amber & Silk by iEna :
This is a rough time but this is what I got..get your brother to tell her what you need her to do BUT coming from him. Dunno, just a crown load.💕
2026-07-12 20:19:35
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SsRi :
boomer parents keep their medical issues to themselves until it's critical and it's everyone's problem... i wished they'd just communicate a bit earlier so we can plan our life around the visits and be able to support them fully without leaving our homes in shambles to fly out or drive for hours to make it work!
2026-07-13 11:16:28
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Angel :
🙏🙏
2026-07-14 04:42:59
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