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AP1989 :
Any time a man sets a boundary it's seen as manipulation change my mind
2026-07-14 17:29:07
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Kie bee :
It just sounded crazy imo. I was gagged
2026-07-18 07:57:26
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HeavyChevy ✨🦋 :
I thought he was honest and direct … they expected him to be “excuse me beautiful , enjoyed our time spent and I don’t want the night to end perhaps a night cap at my place ?”
2026-07-14 09:00:57
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𖣂Deesh𖣂 :
women do this about children and marriage all the time but I never seen any discourse around it
2026-07-14 18:13:43
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winter :
how is it coersion? when it was a voice message?
2026-07-14 12:55:11
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TapeOnMyBeats :
Let’s not forget that he already mentioned it , she said she didn’t know but then still asked him to come to her home the following night . An he was just letting it be known what he was looking for .
2026-07-18 01:27:53
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butta$cup 💚 :
I hate to say it but it gave she’s the one who was trying to coerce him into a relationship after he made it clear his intentions were sexual. She was intentionally ambiguous on the 1st date, intentionally invited him over on the 2nd one. 🤷🏾♀️Then posting it on the internet was a manipulation tactic to assassinate his character and get validation that he was a weirdo because she got rejected.
2026-07-15 17:09:42
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hellostephco :
If a woman left that message, she’d be called desperate, a pick me, and everyone would be focused on how she invited him to her house on the second date. I mean, this is a society where we don’t even let women say that they’re OK with going to coffee for a date in the beginning of a relationship. Women are not allowed to make decisions that divert from the script at all or they will be dealt with. This is not a generation that celebrates sexual liberation for heterosexual women and that’s partly where all of the rage comes from on one side of this argument. Sexual agency is seen as only being able to come from men that’s why they are only seen as predators and not also as human beings who are advocating for their own desires. If a woman said that she also enjoys sex, and if she makes steps to have that experience for herself, she is accused of not knowing her worth, moving too quickly, and giving men the opportunity to misuse her. Sexual liberation and being celebrated for it as a heterosexual woman no longer a thing Especially among Gen Z. Society now is way too sex negative for heterosexual women. Sex Is something to hold over a man’s head to get him to fulfill your romantic fantasies, and if you give into your own desires, you were seen as selling yourself short. So she may not have been called a cohesive manipulator, but she would definitely be criticized as well.
2026-07-15 15:17:08
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Whatever :
What really bothers me is people straight up calling him a predator for this...
2026-07-14 13:39:03
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Sora Stone :
this guy being kind of a douche does not make him a prreditor lol
2026-07-14 12:33:43
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Rosa_A54 :
looking at it from a man's perspective. if we had a whole conversation about me wanting to have sex with you and you told me you were unsure about how you felt but then invited me back to your crib, yeah I'ma need clarification real quick! that sounds like a whole trap.
2026-07-15 23:42:29
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eboni💕 :
If a woman sent me that message, she’d be blocked immediately
2026-07-14 13:27:19
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Grizzlyq :
Yeah, he could’ve been super vulgar with it too
2026-07-17 15:04:15
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princess coco :
oooo ate
2026-07-17 22:12:49
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honeycallmedraco :
I just heard his video and he was not disrespectful not mean he was very honest about what he wanted and what his intentions were and I respect that 1000 times more than a guy lying to me acting like that’s not what he’s looking for or he’s not interested in that and then he tries to pressure you. He didn’t do anything wrong in my opinion.
2026-07-14 20:17:18
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user2458025155870 :
like if this was said on love island ya would eat it up.
2026-07-14 11:18:29
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Desiree🌸 :
You ain’t lying fren
2026-07-13 00:52:09
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Crystalfairyvt :
this! Was the note super blunt not worded well and kind of ick? yes Does that make him a bad person? no! Also a lot of people do not understand consent to plans versus active consent. they also don't seem to understand that consent is a honest continuous nuanced conversation. also it wasn't even the girl that posted it was her friend which brings up the question why did she really post because if she wanted advice for her friend she didn't give context enough for actual advice and the only other thing I can think of is she wanted to ride the drama that it would bring. lastly we do have to acknowledge the fact that this could have been AI created which again would be meaning that this person was just trying to get clicks and views off drama
2026-07-14 20:34:42
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Meek :
Everyone wants to be sold a dream thats all it is 😂
2026-07-15 23:46:26
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Dj :
Nope still would’ve been weird
2026-07-14 23:46:13
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TiffanyJo :
THANK YOU!! All of a sudden everyone is waiting til marriage and never heard of casual sex before. When I was single I would’ve appreciated that voice mail! I would’ve been HORRIFIED if all I wanted was to hook up and the guy I was seeing thought I wanted a future with him. Absolutely not! This whole thing is why I’m not a “girls girl”. Cause they’re not using common sense. They’re just sticking by a girls side for being a girl and I HATE THAT
2026-07-14 20:47:05
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Shiya B. :
He let her know his intentions for the night before coming over and trying to force it. Idk how that’s manipulation or coercion… he saved her the possibility of an uncomfortable or dangerous situation.
2026-07-14 16:28:27
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ᖭི༏ᖫྀ Katie ᖭི༏ᖫྀ :
People think their inability to be alone with themselves is manipulation 😭 not getting a second date isnt a threat, asking for communication isnt rape
2026-07-15 14:22:07
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trucker2cyber :
Sexual incompatibility is absolutely a deal breaker.
2026-07-14 14:59:42
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