@midlifewithmeaning: Caring without carrying: the pause technique #midlifemoms #pause #neevoussystem #regulation #support

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Heather :
So very helpful. My kids wellbeing stresses me out so much. I’m a nurse and feel like I need to fix everything g and protect them. They are 26 and 23. They do not ask for help. I jump in. They have started to not tell me things because they do t want to worry me. Which is not what I want. Live your posts.
2026-07-18 22:39:21
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jen529746
The Attainable Garden :
Or sending job postings. And then worrying so much I can’t sleep
2026-07-13 01:02:50
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hazelwithano
DefinitelyNotLivyorLaniesMom :
I've made such a mess of everything by not doing this. I don't know how to make anything better.
2026-07-12 22:56:57
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user9031284921117
J_O :
OMG, I feel hopelessly co-dependent at this point
2026-07-15 04:13:39
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yeah_well0
yeah_well0 :
I feel this way about my daughter but also my elderly parents and to be honest it’s exhausting. I wish I could change how I feel and react
2026-07-14 12:23:11
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mspnwa95
michelle :
I literally cant be ok unless my daughter is. I really needed to hear this. im a fixer. I need to learn to not do that
2026-07-14 03:33:57
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bev36walt
Bev36walt :
My daughter has a ex n he is awful, I feel I have been in this relationship since my daughter left him 4 yrs ago!she tells me a lot n sometimes I try to tell her that he isn’t telling the truth n we argue, it’s hard cos I am trying to look out for my grandbaby. Maybe I just need to leave her to it? It’s effecting my mental health!
2026-07-13 07:03:04
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ebrennan16
Moo 🇨🇦 :
Thanks!😊 Love the shelves behind you, where did you get them?
2026-07-13 22:40:31
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cowboysfan13137
CowboysFan1313 :
it's mine. I know this. I just said to my husband not 30 minutes ago. I feel all those struggles. my mood is based on what my kids are feeling -going through.
2026-07-15 01:43:58
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cat.lynn0
Catrina Lynn :
Thank you, I definitely needed to hear that!
2026-07-13 00:30:51
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bellagurl77
Daughter of a 👑 :
I feel like your watching my life right now
2026-07-14 14:31:02
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aliciardh11
Alicia531 :
Wow! I am so glad to find you!
2026-07-12 21:28:30
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kristyg79
KristyG. :
I have to put this into practice!!!!
2026-07-12 23:49:14
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user308819961
DiAnn :
Thank you. This is great advice
2026-07-13 04:59:47
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leanybeany7
Leanybeany :
I needed to hear this. Everything you said describes my situation. It’s so exhausting x
2026-07-15 21:48:27
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libbyelui1k
teddy 22 :
love your advice. I needed to find you
2026-07-14 09:15:52
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domora20
domora20 :
I feel like you know me!
2026-07-13 17:48:36
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mamaflam
mamaflam :
Thank you. This is very helpful.
2026-07-13 23:57:28
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waitwhoru02
wait-who-r-u :
I’m spiraling right now as I am hearing this from my daughters drama
2026-07-13 03:31:46
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joyfilled61
Lifeisgood :
Exactly what I needed to hear
2026-07-12 21:46:20
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sassy611
sassy611 :
I have so much trouble doing this
2026-07-12 21:43:47
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pla1956
PLA1956 :
My daughter works at the place I retired from. Her therapist told her to tell me what happened at “her” job is not up for discussion. After feeling hurt I realized what good advice it was. I could not hear what she was saying without giving advice. Now it’s off the table.
2026-07-12 21:32:06
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ginadozer
user4489717120950 :
Thank you
2026-07-12 22:15:06
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wellreaddeb
Deb Nielsen 🇨🇦 :
Such good advice
2026-07-14 14:38:47
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tonis154
tonis154 :
Good advice!
2026-07-12 20:42:32
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