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👀 Maho 👀 :
Hiii off-topic question but do you know about typology? And if you are familiar with it already, what's your typology? I'm really curious
2026-07-13 13:03:45
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Kyrì :
i struggle with apathy when it comes to morals, principles and values. there are some things people do that i can’t wrap my head around and i always arrive at “you just shouldn’t have done it” 😭
2026-07-13 19:42:59
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larrysmp4♒️ :
Caring does more harm than good for me so idk
2026-07-13 12:38:55
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gam3rking :
Also sometimes I’ve been learning it’s ok to make mistakes and lose people because that isolation allows you to reflect and also consider the fact that you appreciate having people around and can be a motivator for wanting to be a better person, I mean no one really wants to be alone at the end of the day
2026-07-12 23:35:48
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lembeo :
can someone please explain more specifically how to decide if something is selfish or is prioritizing oneself (and maybe examples of each)🥺 sometimes i wonder whether my decisions are selfish or are me prioritizing myself
2026-07-13 06:38:47
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Bryce :
I do not give a fuck about anyone’s emotions. I don’t care about the future
2026-07-14 00:38:36
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mjm_444 :
I have AuDHD and ASPD so that being said, I have very low emotional empathy, guilt, and remorse, but I do have excellent cognitive empathy. Apathy is how I am about 80% or 90% of the time and I find it difficult to push through it, but I have many times. I’m lucky enough that I’m naturally super curious too, so I actually like to think about things and the only way I gathered the amount of cognitive empathy that I have and the opinions on specific things that I have, is because I took the time to think about these things and think about HOW I think about these things. When I see things on social media or on the Internet often, I will take time to think about things so I can see where my specific stance is on things. I don’t handle being stagnant well at all. There’s definitely a lot of things I have to kind of force myself to think about because I don’t even think about them because I don’t give a sh!t. But as I said, luckily for me, I am naturally very curious so I do think about things a lot. When it comes to people though, that’s where I struggle the most. Performative interest is super difficult for me to mask. I’m self focused so sometimes I don’t think about others abd have to remind myself to. Befriending people is hard. Cutting people off is easy. I am a very good friend. I’m loyal, dependable, protective, but I’m also apathetic to the person’s life and struggles a lot of the time, which means I have to fake caring about often. People may call me a bad or evil person because of the way my brain works, but I don’t personally think that I am because I actually take the time to think things through and understand myself and the world and choose to be friendly and understanding. I think no matter who you are, the most important thing is to always work on yourself and to push your boundaries. Don’t allow the apathy to keep you stagnant.
2026-07-13 13:01:51
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[Dust We Are] :
Human beings co-regulate. People are self isolating and pushing themselves into being miserable. They also develop agnosia and are unable to recognize how miserable they are.
2026-07-14 15:34:29
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zzz :
Thank you. I needed to hear this perspective. Being vulnerable is hard because you get hurt and it bring so much stress so Ive been isolating most of my life, I get a friend, I think im going to fucc it up, I put them in a pedestal trying to do everything right, and end up just erasing myself, meaning I lose my sense of self, when I lose them, I find peace in isolation so I just dont let go of the "im better alone" narrative, which is not a lie completly, I hurt people and i feel hurt too, so skipping that part with isolation feels easy, I dont know how to break the pattern, I will start school soon I will try to socialize as much as I can but I feel I just havent cracked the code of being kind without diminishing yourself in the process
2026-07-26 02:28:54
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Brain Rot :
im naturally apathetic as well, but my loved ones would not describe me that way bc I put the effort in to be caring and thoughtful and if you need help im here for you, I feel like many interpret this as being fake but I feel like its just being mindful of my flaws and trying my best to create good rather than harm
2026-07-15 17:42:39
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juliasajjajadk :
you make great points but for a lot of people caring for others ends up not working very well at all. from autistic poeple who struggle making any friends at all to people pleasers who just end up being used and abused... like for some of us friendships just does not work and never will.
2026-07-18 03:45:23
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Ayo :
I lowkie do think I’m a naturally apathetic person. I prioritize friendships but there’s something within me that fundamentally is apathetic, not out of a place of hurt or anything it just is
2026-07-13 08:49:05
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Gar :
Love this! Spent the last 7ish years working on it and it has improved my life more than I ever thought it would! A lot of things do not bother me, that truly bother people I love and I gotta show up for them. Especially since it’s things that do not make people selfish for wanting. I just do not care about those things for myself.
2026-07-14 03:36:00
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K :
My antidepressants been doing it to me. Also I really realized this past year I don’t align with my friends anymore…
2026-07-13 06:39:35
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midwesterngrammy 🇵🇷 🇵🇷 :
I'm telling you, my husband is my BEST friend, his mother is someone I admire, (AND I DON'T ADMIRE ANYONE.)
2026-07-13 00:45:16
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Wes ☀️🪽 :
It’s my Zoloft and idk how to fix it 💔
2026-07-13 04:36:07
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hershalpomtree :
U have soo much insight and have a very clear and honest way of presenting all ur points and that is a freaking great gift !!😮 JS !!!
2026-07-13 01:47:33
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ashhhrafff :
your content is excellent please continue
2026-07-13 02:08:42
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Moises Amaro :
thank you for the bit of a call out for me. I think my isolation and not knowing how to go about changing that has made me adopt this kind of mindset.
2026-07-13 16:54:05
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Diana :
I am longing for friends but I know I have to address problems within myself first or those friendships won’t last. I want to hold myself accountable and be part of a village that I can also give back to. This is a major goal and focus of mine at this point in my life.
2026-07-13 15:55:45
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Anto_nella :
girly any advice for natural apathetic ppl who are trying to connect and make friends is really difficult to me I'm also struggle with feeling misunderstood
2026-07-13 08:11:58
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flamant_cheri :
I don’t know who you are. But I want to be like you when am older. I am at a point in my life when I just made the realization that my apathy is a problem. And just started to work on it. Watching this video is almost seeing what I aspire to be in the clarity of how the action am making a conscious effort to change will change the way I approach relationship. And it was a very uncanny feeling because it hit a little to close to home as someone didn’t fully understand how to put this exact thoughts in words
2026-07-13 07:13:12
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Keats :
Our great plastic age is coming to an end...
2026-07-31 18:14:05
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inktear :
I use the phrase “i don’t need anybody” very fleetingly tbh, just a momentary way to soothe the pain of social disappointment then i get back to being social and caring after a bit
2026-07-31 15:00:40
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MJ Peltier :
Dude every time you manage to put my brain into words. Especially the insecure video. My jaw dropped 😬
2026-08-06 22:59:14
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