@katasky: dating over 40 after major weight loss, a new series. four decades of field notes on how the world treats women it ignores, and i finally get to publish #datingover40 #datinginyour40s #datingafterweightloss #hotgirlsover40 #datingstorytime

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ree_ledbetter
Ree Ledbetter :
Girl, 55, obese my whole life until GLP-1. It's a crazy new world.
2026-07-16 02:47:34
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shellbell75x
Shelly :
I lost 220 lbs in my 30’s. Life sure is different. When you are over weight you are “invisible”
2026-07-14 21:13:17
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kiki_loves_pineapple
Kerina :
Do you feel the need to bring up weight loss on the first date? I finally stopped but will point out my arm lift scar before anyone notices now that it’s summer 😭
2026-07-14 21:52:26
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thewhiskersonkittens
Laura :
Are people much nicer to you now?
2026-07-15 20:17:24
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londonamazona
londonamazona :
Girl same! It’s so weird to experience this at 49.
2026-07-14 21:43:26
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dmfkim
Kim | Plus SideZ Podcast :
So fun
2026-07-17 02:12:15
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mrsbasilefrankweiler15
MrsBasilEFrankweiler :
I lost 60 lbs while working in sales- the change in how men treated me was sort of predictable but it was shocking to me how women treated me differently too- some were meaner and some finally noticed me like I was no longer invisible
2026-07-21 02:08:11
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riffranger85
riffranger85 :
I’m not a woman and not hot but I so relate to being able to read people. Fat people deal with fake politeness all the time. I can tell instantly if someone is being genuine to the point where other people in my life accuse me of being too judgmental. I’m ALWAYS proven right, though.
2026-07-20 11:47:00
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taralecil
JenniFL :
Ooh, I’m gonna love this series, aren’t I? 😁
2026-07-14 20:34:20
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yoyoyeet
YoYoYeet :
How can a dude signal to you that they have had a similar journey?
2026-07-17 15:38:00
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kiyana757
Kiyana757 :
I've lost 100 pounds so far at 41 and suddenly men are lot more chatty and helpful... like literally letting me cut lines and all kinds of stuff
2026-07-16 21:27:39
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msbreads
Girlwithaboot :
Finally someone who gets it!! Dating in a smaller body is wild!!!
2026-07-15 11:53:13
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sarahtaylor456
sarahtaylor456 :
You’re gorgeous!!!
2026-07-14 21:14:17
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gurl4realz
Gigi 🤍 :
Did you lose the weight with a glp1??
2026-07-21 04:59:06
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terryjeanx
jeanx :
I cannot Tolerate the HEAT A’TALL but you are as HOT AS A FIRECRACKER 🧨 in the best way Possible❗️💥❗️
2026-07-15 01:22:21
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terrisimmons00
Orchid Cat :
I got skinny in my 30’s and the changes in the way people treated me freaked me out… especially men. I talked about it with people and they would tell me it was because I was more confident, not because I was skinny. I was not more confident.
2026-07-17 13:10:11
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plexoris
Plexoris :
Forget the haters!
2026-07-15 02:57:19
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marilynmapp420
Rosaparksheir :
Wow. You look fabulous
2026-07-16 22:00:03
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leilanidiaries0
leilanidiaries0 :
You are hooooooot
2026-07-16 11:36:24
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plottwist4119
Winter :
ooooo I'm here for it! Im 48 and have lost 60lb so far about 60 more to go, I'm not ready to date yet but been wondering how it would go. Can't wait to follow along!
2026-07-15 02:35:18
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userl41990
userL41990 :
I am experiencing the same I was hot though my whole life until about age 31 until I got pregnant with my first child,then spent the next 15 yrs being morbidly obese. now-at 47,im hot again and lost the 150lbs keeping me obese. it's been a weird social experiment seeing the hot side,then being invisible,then now being hot again. such a mind fuck really. I can relate to this 100%!!! crazy.💕
2026-07-14 23:42:43
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whippetandashiba
🐕 :
down over 100 lbs and at 43 I am in the best shape of my life and the way people treat you is wild
2026-07-20 12:19:21
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safetylady76
Lady Diana 🇨🇦 :
What have you learned so far?
2026-07-19 19:14:30
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aworkinprogress.wip
aworkinprogress.wip :
Yesssss! This!!!
2026-07-15 16:57:52
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