Your posts are so fucking helpful....appreciate you
2026-07-14 10:28:52
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Sylus_B@gzFām!ľý :
My bestfriend became my person and I had to exit
2026-07-15 15:31:33
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Tylerb20 :
Yeah marry me already
2026-07-15 02:08:47
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Kassidy🫶🏻 :
my fear of abandonment has always been so intense it’s such a horrible symptom 😭
2026-07-13 13:05:45
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scaredy cat :
I have fear of abandonment too.
2026-07-14 15:12:51
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Unimpressed :
I literally think my favorite person secretly hates me… my therapist literally had to tell me that “your feelings are validated. You feel that your friends and family hates because of their actions. But that doesn’t mean that your feelings are accurate. Your friend didn’t call you back because she didn’t have service where she was at. Your fiancé does not think you are a lot, he just had a hard day as well. Your family isn’t open with you like you are so you think they hate you. They have separate lives with their own kids and problems. Your feelings are valid but it doesn’t mean that they hate you or that they will abandon you”. I struggle so much with that and hopefully I can master this.
2026-07-13 15:57:54
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𝖫𝖴𝖪𝖠’𝖲 𝖣𝖠𝖱𝖫𝖨𝖭𝖦 ⭐️ :
Am I so screwed bc i feel this.
2026-07-14 03:43:30
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hayl33 :
Just recently got diagnosed with
2026-07-13 14:51:16
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cortdou.yoyo3 :
Recently diagnosed. Spot on for me
2026-07-14 03:15:19
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Nicki Allen :
I very recently got diagnosed with BPD after trying to do research around bpd because my best friend has bpd and I wanted to learn about it so I could be supportive in the right ways for them.
Honestly, learning this about myself has been both horrifying and vindicating.
I hate looking back on so many failed relationships and being able to see that I was, in fact, the problem. It's hard to look at past and current friendships and seeing that I really am too much for most people.
BUT I am very glad to have better clarity around this. I have started DBT in therapy and am already seeing improvement even after just a couple months. 💜
2026-07-13 14:46:47
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Not_toothless🏴 :
(Undiagnosed but in the process of) but, is it just me but if I’m like entirely on my own, no close friends, no relationship, and I have my bike. Life’s good. But as soon as you add someone to the equation it’s just downhill
2026-07-15 01:17:33
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qoil :
I reassured her too much and made her feel loved even when she expressed she feels unlovable so much that she called me clingy. Ngl I am 😂
2026-07-14 16:50:57
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elixxx67 :
I’ve grieved my relationships so many times and everyone is still here?? Like why was I scared? 😭
2026-07-13 19:17:37
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Cheyanne Lawrence :
You describe me so well
2026-07-14 10:28:08
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juno_rylee :
I got diagnosed in June 2025. It’s been a lot
2026-07-13 13:24:13
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🤍💙BleedBluecoltstilidie💙🤍 :
This is so me… i struggle so bad with abandonment and betrayal… and when asked about it its so hard to explain… my bf is used to it cause he has been with me so long…. But when i make new friends its always a struggle
2026-07-13 13:55:58
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Nikki :
I just got diagnosed with BPD back in March… and I was so sad because I didn’t want to realize how bad my emotions were and how bad my fear of being abandonment was and ect.
2026-07-13 13:13:48
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❤️❤️🦋🦋 :
Bro this is me I feel called out the first few seconds
2026-07-13 14:16:30
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Mars :
This is literally me
2026-07-13 13:29:43
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yourrealistbitch :
Same😭
2026-07-13 19:43:41
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Oohhh_Natalie :
Yes! I’m in that right now. I’m hella paranoid !! I’m like why do you hate me! I deal with this constantly.
2026-07-13 18:37:16
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justzack32 :
… welllllp
2026-07-13 20:18:18
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Lacey :
Thank you bc I’ve been going crazy for years saying I have this and everyone’s like no…. Girl this is me to a T.
2026-07-13 16:14:36
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justahater444 :
One thing I experience is even tho I feel secure in my relationship or when I reassure myself, when I’m away from my partner I still feel grief, sadness and emptiness despite my thoughts reflecting the opposite
2026-07-13 19:11:48
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joi. 👸🏽 :
same girl same
2026-07-13 13:02:33
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