@sherry_spurlin: 🚨You don’t fall for a romance scam because you’re weak. You fall for it because they found the one door in your life that was already open. Here’s what people get wrong about this. They picture some lonely, desperate person getting fooled by a bad photo and broken English. That’s not who they’re targeting, and that’s not how it works. They study you first. Your posts, your comments, what you grieve, what you’re proud of, what you haven’t said out loud in a while. Then they mirror it back to you — same values, same sense of humor, same wound. Married people fall for this too, and I want to say that clearly, because the shame keeps people quiet. It’s not about a weak marriage. It’s about a gap — grief, an empty house, a health scare, a season where you felt like the provider, the fixer, the background of your own life instead of the center of someone’s attention. That gap is the door. They don’t need you single. They need you unseen. Then comes the love bombing — the constant messages, the “I’ve never felt this way,” the future they build with you in six days that most people take six months to build. It feels like connection. It’s actually pacing. They’re moving faster than your judgment can keep up. And once you’re attached, the ask is never money at first. It’s small things. A favor. A “just this once.” By the time real money is involved, you’re not making a decision anymore — you’re protecting a relationship you already believe in. That’s the machine. Not weakness. Precision targeting and professional. yall be safe! #scam #scammer #romancescam

Robert Butler :

works both ways the difference is they know who you are but you don't know who they are so that's why you target the individual the head of the program And I'm sure it's not too difficult for the government to locate it they just not interested because they can make money

mile57 :

why do I still feel guilty. i have been scammed at least 5 times. I wish i could get over it. sorry.

Oregon Kathy :

I swear that these scammers have a script..you hear basically the same story.

Jani :

wow...you told it just like it happened n went on for awhile. thank you for this explanation.

Lizaaa 🌈 :

she waited for over 3 years to scammed me over four thousand dollars. I'm still grieving over it.

Katrin :

💯 what you said. I’m still trying to get out of it

smiles and sunshine :

they are killing me with Keanu Reeves imposter

bonniesmith156 :

so true...when he wanted 500$ for a membership card ..I had a bad vibes ...so I blocked him today

sharoncasados. I love all of U :

I don't believe a darn thing they tell me, nothing.

🤍❤️ :

merci ok

SHORTCAKE🍓💎 G13💎🍓✝️💎🙏💎 :

Thank you 🙏

redhead26195 :

I can see that happening

user1281039994754 :

M :

Truth Sis❤️💯

SHORTCAKE🍓💎 G13💎🍓✝️💎🙏💎 :

KNOWLEDGE IS POWER,

bonniesmith156 :

thank

Joann :

oh yes

Evelyn Scott :

This is so correct.

vomJubel :

absolutely

Nori*321 :

Exactly 💯.....especially if you were a Hauser fan. Oh the comments I left...yes the door was definately open. Much wiser now.

mark :

so true

Pureblood4Christ :

💯💯💯

the doglady :

😢😢😢

petegarza756 :

👍💯🔥🌹🌟🌟🍉🍎🌴☕🫐