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If you go from being a people pleaser to having boundaries it happens easily. lol ppl don’t like what they can’t control
2026-07-13 23:50:13
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Vibrant Diamonds by Ashley :
I feel like everyone is missing the point. He’s not talking about people who finally set boundaries and cut everyone off. He’s talking about people who have constant drama and problems with everyone in their life and always blame it on the other person. Like- they have no self awareness.
2026-07-14 13:10:36
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That sounds personal :
Oh I’m 100% the problem. I dont deal with nonsense.
2026-07-14 14:43:46
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Bri🦋 :
When a person starts setting boundaries after years of people-pleasing or tolerating unhealthy behavior, that can lead to falling out with a lot of people; not because they’re the problem, but because the dynamics changed.
2026-07-14 05:38:55
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Musharooma :
Self isolation can be extremely peaceful.
2026-07-13 21:15:06
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cicada7136595 :
The very second i started saying No.. I lost EVERYONE. This is a nuanced, complex conversation
2026-07-23 14:47:38
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The Goddess Key :
I'm the problem because I refused to play a role that only suits them and not for me!
2026-07-13 16:56:51
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Tinasavy :
The comment section is infact full of these people.
2026-07-22 12:29:22
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Rochelle Daniels :
There are a LOT of people on this post who you are speaking directly to. They are defending themselves even here with strangers. 🤣 Still doesn’t cross their minds. 🤣🤣🤣
2026-07-14 15:13:32
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Sarah :
The person experiencing a full fallout with everyone is usually a narcissist - and they can’t take accountability because that’s an injury that they literally mentally cannot handle.
2026-07-21 15:34:59
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6Blackie6 :
I've experienced this as well... Like when I drink whiskey, all of my friends turn into complete assholes!🤣
2026-07-23 03:25:22
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Mz.Brooklyn🫦 :
You are misinformed...that person is keeping their peace...there isnt always safety in numbers...
2026-07-13 17:37:35
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portraitartistgg :
I know I am the problem - I have a diagnosis of PTSD and cPTSD and I wont take shit from anybody - I'm tapping out! Leave me be.
2026-07-23 14:02:50
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Amelia :
💯 This is sadly my Daughter. 25 and us so delusional. refuses to work on herself and be the best version of herself
2026-07-23 14:16:54
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diddly squat :
to outsiders it would look as though I’ve fallen out with everyone, but in reality I’m finally starting to see my self-worth and I don’t tolerate disrespect anymore.
2026-07-14 18:44:00
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Kathy B :
sometimes people just start to stand up for themselves. doesnt mean they are the problem. means they took too much crap for too long and said enough is enough.
2026-07-18 23:19:34
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TG Mags :
Crosses my mind alot actually and I talk about a lot in therapy. Then I remind myself that I attend counselling regularly while these people don't. I've grown up and set alot of boundaries and that's a lonely path to take! Peaceful. But lonely.
2026-07-16 15:08:35
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Natalie Bailey :
Nah, I stopped putting up with the shitty behaviour. I started treating them how they treated me and that’s when the cracks started to show.
2026-07-19 12:58:12
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Stuffn’Junk :
Or they wake up one day and realize they are surrounded by people who suck
2026-07-15 04:43:42
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Tracy Fretwell :
Nah, that’s a person that’s realised they get more peace and happiness with a small circle.
2026-07-19 08:08:00
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MackbooW10 :
😂😂😂😂😂😂 The amount of people who are the problem in the comments is hilarious
2026-07-15 21:28:29
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Alesia_Mone’ :
I’m definitely the problem, cuz I don’t accept shit that I don’t dish out
2026-07-13 17:16:16
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Paula Moore305 :
I know I'm the problem, but it was my choice to walk when I realised they weren't my people!
2026-07-18 00:51:48
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clarissashavonne :
I’ve fallen out with everybody and I finally feel at peace ✌🏾
2026-07-16 06:20:31
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Heidi Laursen :
lol. The comments section went out of their way to miss the point. 😂
2026-07-14 21:49:56
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