My husband and I have had these issues for years and decided to go back to the relationship style we had in the early years of our relationship... open. I have multiple partners. He could if he wanted, but he doesn't feel the need for it as he cant keep up with me.
2026-07-17 16:54:34
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Chey🥇♟️💎_SAHM+5_Wife_Teacher :
yeah no I don't what it at all and he used to be so mad but I've had a lot going on down there medically 🤣🤣🥰🥰🥰
2026-07-18 02:33:52
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Dawn :
im there too. and its frustrating cause toys only makes it worse.
2026-07-13 21:01:45
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Iskabible :
I crave it more then my husband. there is a 20 year age gap and he's had surgeries in the hip area so I get it. still frustrating
2026-07-18 19:35:48
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Danielle Holcomb :
I have a genuine question. My daughter just turned 12 and we’ve had many talks about what’s normal body development. What she’s embarrassed by and what to expect. I try to use technical language so there’s no confusion. We’ve gone over odor, discharge, hygiene, and products. And what she would need to alert me about if something strange happens. Question: what was one thing you didn’t know, that you wished someone would’ve told you? I want to make sure she has the accurate information and no shame in her body, which was my experience.
2026-07-13 21:37:10
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Ruler of Unicorns :
Please, talk about how much women do NOT want sex after menopause. In top of zero interest, it hurts.
2026-07-14 18:33:38
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Jennofalltrades72 :
My bedside table boyfriend can’t complain 😂😂
2026-07-14 10:50:47
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NikkiHeat1018 🥓 :
mine was and now it's zero, thank you very fn much perimenopause
2026-07-13 21:29:10
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Caroline Soul :
ladies, does anyone else going through menopause get bruised very easily? xx
2026-07-13 20:32:50
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Ginny Doll :
Definitely in this boat myself, but unfortunately I don't have any helpful suggestions bc I just get called a gremlin & told I need to calm down! 😅 So, this time, I'm here for the tips & advice!
2026-07-13 20:36:04
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Rachel Soule :
I have a perimenopausal question for those in it.. do y'all feel Sahara desert down stairs even when your "needing" as all get up?? I can be "needing" bad and drier than the Sahara desert.. yet it doesn't feel like it's going away it kinda scares and worries me..
2026-07-14 03:50:31
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Jessica Anderson :
I am in perimenopause and my drive is higher than in my 20s! I have heard the opposite happens for most women. I feel like a man with the high drive I have.
2026-07-14 19:17:52
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ChaosHunter626 :
Omg I am so there right now!!! My partner is 10 years older than I am and it is making me insane at this point!!!
2026-07-13 21:09:14
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dogmom82 :
Married for 44 years and we have switched back and forth on who has the higher drive a few times.
2026-07-13 21:01:57
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.meagan__ :
With my ex I had a much higher drive than him. He made me feel horrible about it. The relationship obviously ended. It’s fine to have a high drive, it’s not ok for your partner to make you feel bad about it.
2026-07-13 20:57:23
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jezey406 :
i had zero drive after my kid for 10 years. i hit 40 and it was like oh HELLO!!! hi there!🤣 my hubby is ecstatic
2026-07-14 00:19:10
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lovetocraft79 :
mine was until I hit perimenopause. now I have none.
2026-07-14 01:51:31
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Wendy Sings 💈 :
I had a MUCH higher drive until I hit menopause.
2026-07-13 21:24:16
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Gen❌ Kiki :
5 years post menopausal and it’s never been higher. Everyone is different. I went years not wanting it at all and now I have to have it daily. Everyone’s journey is as unique as their hormone levels.
2026-07-14 02:06:20
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sarah seekamp she/her :
I lost my libido a long time ago and haven't had any urges in yrs
2026-07-13 22:51:40
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Heeder :
It’s switched through the years. Currently, I have the higher drive.
2026-07-13 20:58:49
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Manda :
my husband and I are two years apart. I definitely have a higher drive than him. we literally have a plan that either Monday or Tuesday are the days best for him (I'd do both) and occasionally we have to have a talk that I need him to start things because if I am always the one it makes me feel like he doesnt want me. it really helps jus talking it out and him reaffirming how I am feeling
2026-07-13 21:47:42
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suheilyfontanez1 :
I'm 44 and starting perimenopause in all my research even at the doctor they ask or say that your drive will experience a decrease but in my case has been the same or more and my husband is not in the same level. so please don't feel alone we are all in the same boat.
2026-07-13 22:33:07
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The Cobb Family!!!!! (12.6k) :
Omg! I had the opposite problem!
2026-07-13 21:13:37
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