@elly.psychologist: Three things tend to separate an ordinary relationship from a toxic relationship, and they're worth being honest with yourself about. The first is being made to feel like you're constantly falling short, small pointed comments about ordinary parts of who you are, or being told outright that you need to change. It often comes dressed up as concern, wanting to help you grow, knowing what's best for you, but good intentions don't cancel out the impact, and a toxic relationship relies on exactly that confusion to make control feel like care. The second is editing yourself out of fear rather than choice. If you find yourself calculating what's safe to say the moment someone walks into the room, quietly adjusting who you are to avoid a reaction, that's not a small habit, it's the beginning of shrinking yourself to keep someone else comfortable. Left alone, that pattern in a toxic relationship rarely stays contained, it tends to spread until it starts to feel genuinely suffocating. The third, and often the most telling, is accountability, or the lack of it. In a toxic relationship, blame has an odd habit of landing on you no matter who was actually in the wrong. That's not chance, it's what happens when one person never has to sit with their own part in anything, leaving the other person endlessly trying to be enough for someone who was never actually going to meet them there Official accounts and resources: www.ellyanastasiades.com #toxicrelationship #relationshiptok #relationshipproblems #relationshiptips #relationshipissues

Tes SssA :

Oh, they like to play stupid and say oh I'm just being a supportive cheerleader in your corner. I have a guy that constantly but yet he never makes any real effort to make sure I succeed to those levels of being backed up by a cheerleader.

Tanya :

So what do we do if this is the case?

jedimaster000 :

My partner has BPD; that's like hell on earth when you include his addictions. He won't stick with getting help.

Regina :

It's not micro managing if you want somebody to stop smoking bot

P :

I do have self destructive issues though and he wants me to be healthy and make choices that help me win.

QueenB :

yes I am going through this rightnow what should I do

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Carmencita Casian968 :

yea 22 plus years omg

Junice :

love you Elly

Nosaibaali :

All my relationships end tragically. I hope to find the right person. Sometimes it's difficult to deal with a girl who has a strong personality, and pretending not to be is hard.

Lee Rumbelow :

abuyu🫅 :

yes

Regina :

Smoking pot is such a dangerous thing

Nosaibaali :

By the way, I like your personality😍😍😍. I hope to see your new videos often.

SEEKYE1st :

Disagree with your first point. If she didn’t grow up with a father, she needs to be taught how to respect a man. And if you break up with her over disrespect, them it’s your fault fi not having patience with her.

Damodar Pokhrel :

💯💯💯

sofiapanagiotou11 :

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