@bella.dane: The narcissism of taking every lack of compatibility as a pesonal rejection

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user525_600
🐜 :
Ok but his loss.
2026-07-13 20:54:48
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amberpmartinez
Ambermartinez :
Love Island taught me this lol
2026-07-13 21:39:09
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lexbaile_
Alexis :
Have an ego death, then you’ll be able to detach
2026-07-14 23:49:04
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shannonknight27
Shannon :
You can be the whole package but still end up at the wrong door
2026-07-21 08:09:59
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itsnadjanicole
Nadja :
I think women realize incompatibility way later than men. Men know it very quickly and women stick around and ignore red flags then end up with someone we don’t even truly like.
2026-07-14 14:18:18
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theprincesstutu
Nevena :
IT IS PERSONAL, we are not statistics or categories.
2026-07-14 22:38:38
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alieninvegas
AlienInVegas :
I mean. Dammn 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 This messaged helped tremendously right now.
2026-07-14 04:46:09
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chynavictoria_
Chynavictoria :
Ok but it’s not about him having a different preference it’s about him wasting my time knowing I’m not his preference…. So yeah his loss
2026-07-14 12:59:56
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goathopkins
GoatHopkins :
I agree. What works for me (and this is literally just me) I’m far too self centered. It’s not “oh well it’s their loss” it’s genuinely “wow I feel bad for them, they don’t get to experience me anymore” which allows me to empathize with, and let go of, people who preferred the pie over my cake 🎂 (I’ve been told I got cakes so I’m embracing it)
2026-07-13 19:20:22
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sammyandthecity
SAMANTHA Z :
Thank you Margot Robbie I needed this
2026-07-13 21:41:54
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amylj.11
✨ amy ✨ :
this is a very refreshing take that I think more people should consider
2026-07-13 19:51:28
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sweetasscandy90
Candee🫶🏽 :
No it’s definitely his loss!
2026-08-07 05:43:32
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clarissa.yip
Clarissa🩷 :
Yes this is the only way to maintain a healthy self esteem. If rejection from others make you reject yourself then you shouldn't date because it becomes very toxic and you might end up people pleasing or overdoing to prove your worth, when the right person will see it. You don't have to do that much.
2026-07-14 08:45:21
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username138494938
🪐 :
Thank you for this
2026-07-13 18:45:51
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khethymadondo
Khethy🇿🇦 🇩🇪 :
Learning to not take everything personally is the best skill you’ll ever have. Stop pinning people’s personalities and behaviors on yourself. I beg you to practice this girls and you’ll be free.
2026-08-06 17:06:51
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fromthemoon333
fromthemoon333 :
I understand it's not easy but you should be okay if someone doesn't like you cause that means you just aren't for each other and move on happily that you aren't with the wrong person🩷
2026-09-12 11:02:26
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vices55
k :
This is a great perspective, agreed! Also you look like Addison Rae
2026-07-16 04:05:39
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lulaqueenmother
lula :
It’s an ego heartbreak
2026-07-29 13:12:00
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angrycheesenip
Rockie :
Nah, you’re right. We need to stop being so mean to ppl who don’t want us. It’s FINE for ppl not to want us cause it’s not like we want everyone either.
2026-07-14 01:36:07
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zassfitness
Zass™ | Mental Health+Fitness :
Yeah but he said he liked pie, he didn’t have to do that
2026-08-27 04:35:22
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theblacksheeplife2
Blacksheepteaco. :
This is good advice 🥰
2026-07-15 23:23:53
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museandmedia
Lika :
Exactly this is why I think competition doesn’t exist. Many women are kind of competing with each other and it makes no sense to me because chemistry is very individual
2026-07-14 08:18:48
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addisonromaniuk52
Addison :
But if he led you on then it’s a different story cause that’s just not right to do to someone
2026-07-14 17:38:32
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