@unproblematicmak: No I’m not 🍃 I got my eyes dilated. #sa #voicememoguy #coercion #consent #coercionisnotconsent

Sarah :

Did yall miss the part where he said “and if that’s what you don’t want, that’s fine. We should end it here, respectfully” ??

Jason :

Coercion involves a threat where the threat here

(-.-)Zzz・・・・ :

if you payed attention they did talked about it during the first date

DMagaSOL :

Because he might not know if he’s interested in a sexual relationship with her until he catches a vibe

NightOwl :

Most people don’t just randomly stop and ask people on the street if they want to have sex. I think the first date is good for both sides. Just because he only wants sex doesn’t mean he wants it from just anyone. He wanted a sexual relationship not a one night stand. People use first dates to gauge the other person all the time. Also, it sounds like he let her know on the first date what he wanted. He was up front.

★ :

So obviously, they were talking for a little minute and they went on a date. That’s the first date you talk you get to know the person you you like the person for their personality and their opinion to stuff like that the second date can also be about that but some people don’t want that they want sexual actions on the second date

Eve 🍋 :

I’ve been thinking about it, and whenever I’ve been in a situation with someone where it was for hook ups only, ts was communicated BEFORE we even met up?? Who tf asks someone out on a date and makes it seem like they want a relationship AND THEN says they’ll stop speaking to them if they can’t hook up??!

KarenStamper :

I’m surprised by this because men are usually very upfront with me online about just wanting a hookup before I ever agree to meet them in person.

Stinky Eastwood :

he discussed it during date 1

Chunky :

you dont know how they met. if they met in person, should he have gone "hey, i'm so and so, I fuck by date 2, whats your name?" isnt the purpose of date 1 to figure out the rules of engagement and get to know someone? why did he have to preemptively say that? why would he have needed to?

Izabel :

When you have to ask more then once

cheesemarket🇬🇷 :

wdym why wait after the first date what could he had done, shpuld he gone up to a random woman and tell her to have $xx with him

Answer :

Because maybe not everyone is fucking perfect and also how do you know that’s his only thing it’s probably just one of them because he still wants to date her

mascat :

So if he said we aren’t gonna go on a date or get in a relationship if we don’t have sex that would be better?

widerview :

He was upfront. He said she said before she was unsure. That happened on the first date or before.

countryscholar :

Because he didn't know her

🦇Mary🦇 :

we literally have no idea that did or didn't happen you ade juat speculating

natlajune.com :

Because it’s not actually about the sex. It’s about getting her to do something she doesn’t want to do. And this is what people don’t want to see

stargazergays :

HemmyMoid🤣🫱 :

he already asked on the first date

ssaandwich :

okay but didnt he say that she said she didnt want it. meaning theyve talked about it before. so obviously yes theyve probably already said those things, its not crazy to confirm again

𝕲𝖆𝖎𝖆 :

The girl dosent need to post private messages on the internet but if if you wanna have sex on the second date personally i wouldent post this on the internet i would say nah and just block him aint no need to post private shit

𝕮𝖆𝖒𝖕𝖔𝖈𝖆𝖑𝖞𝖘𝖕𝖊 :

Do you have the profile pictures? And text messages

Alexander Hamilton :

He set a boundary, he didn't want anything past sex anf he was open about it. Why is that a problem?