@kelleydaring: #decentermen #genderroles #emotionallabor #matriarchy #goodwife

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berrythecanecorso
Natalie & Berry :
omg i feel this sooo much. your series has been so helpful. thank you
2026-07-15 17:43:10
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housecatchaos
Sarah :
This whole series is TikTok Premium 👌🏻
2026-07-13 23:19:41
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improbablelifeofjoy
Joy :
Wow this resonates.
2026-07-16 12:27:52
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sherrypmac
sherrypmac :
“I believed that disappointing someone else was worse than abandoning myself” WOAH. This one. I think that’s a universal experience for women and it needs to stop
2026-07-14 14:16:25
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eve00594
Eve :
The best part is nobody knows what "good" even means... It seems the only criterion is constant self-sacrifice.
2026-07-14 08:55:20
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nicola_c_uk
NicolaC 🇪🇺🇬🇧 :
Your description of it being a never ending exercise in futility (so relatable) made me think of Sisyphus. 😩
2026-07-14 04:47:33
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alicefroststudio
Alice Frost | Artist :
Self abandonment is what I have started working on and your words help so much. Thank you
2026-07-14 00:06:23
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transformwithdrv
Dr V | Health & Beauty :
I’m so glad I came across your content 👌🏽🙏
2026-07-15 12:14:23
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goodgirldeconstructed
Good Girl Deconstructed :
THIS!! I no longer perform who I am in life and some who benefited as the audience no longer have seats.
2026-07-13 23:11:18
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user1017051241322
user1017051241322 :
I wasted so many years being a people pleaser. Now I’m working on accepting people’s disappointment and discomfort. I’ve come to realize that I only have one life and I have to live it for myself. I’m incredibly grateful that your account came across my life. Thank you for sharing.
2026-07-13 23:45:14
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carrie20305060
Carrie :
This is the most poignant post I have ever watched. And you are so generous for sharing your choices, decisions and experiences. You are a trailblazer, I hope you realize that…
2026-07-14 00:00:39
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tags2525
✨ Mystery ✨ :
I keep going back to your comment (from my previous video in this series) that you, and everyone else around you, are actually happier when you are your authentic self.
2026-07-14 13:44:11
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churple
churple :
'stopped noticing I was completely disappearing' yes, this happened to me. and what you said next was what I needed to hear 'behaving this way wasn't actually winning anyone's approval. I didn't actually feel loved in any of those relationships.' 🤯💡
2026-07-14 00:24:15
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peace2198
✩ :
Thanks so much for sharing, Its like you are explaning reason why i been feeling so drained i feel resentment because people didnt show up the same way i do but i was abandoning myself to make others happy and be good when in reality i should be good to myself.
2026-07-13 22:52:36
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kkloot2
KristenC :
Your posts resonate with me so much! I'm a child-free by choice woman and recovering people pleaser. I hit my breaking point this weekend after completely overextending myself for others, knowing it would never be reciprocated. I am working on doing more for myself and what I what/need. thankful for your posts! ❤️
2026-07-14 02:23:51
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chatwithsabrinashow
Sabrina | Mom Wife & Travel :
You’re my queen. Thank you so much for posting this. It is so helpful.
2026-07-14 01:25:37
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grandoakacres
grandoakacres :
I feel this. I havent been married for 18 years but ive had to decenter work and even my sons. And its now leaking into every person I come in contact with Your videos have helped me so much.
2026-07-14 03:12:23
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lydiakia
lydiakia :
TikTok’s finest content
2026-07-14 01:52:09
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docbb2
BB Witchy Woman :
Not feeling loved in any of those approval-based relationships is so real.
2026-07-14 01:01:33
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wongile
Wongile :
i have recommended this series to others
2026-07-14 08:53:44
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sharonhelin
Sharon Helin :
I started changing my people pleasing ways when I couldn’t actually find anyone who I’d pleased. It just becomes an expectation that everyone has of you and is never enough.
2026-07-14 23:29:21
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eemariee1
eemariee🇨🇦 :
this series has been so helpful. I'm unpacking so much and I have recently started therapy.
2026-07-14 15:38:40
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vmcstc
jwcs1997 :
This is me, but not with my husband (I'm unmarried), but me to my dad.
2026-07-14 07:40:40
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justina7189
justina7189 :
The things I don’t do any longer, like kin keeping; and how uncomfortable not doing it makes those who used to benefit from me doing it.
2026-07-14 16:16:58
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user8084127592403
Tall mama :
The guilt of choosing yourself is so hard, it’s like you are doing something wrong
2026-07-14 12:22:59
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