✡︎Jordan Novak✡︎ (They/Them)
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Tuesday 14 July 2026 00:05:09 GMT
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Nat :
🍇 culture also thrives in ambiguity. So any attempt to clear it up is the opposite of that.
2026-07-14 23:33:50
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totallynotanurse :
i just dont get the whole ultimatum angle i see online, stating what you want out of dating is not a ultimatum it would be exactly the same situation if he said he wanted kids and she didbt, it feels like people dont want you to date for sex
2026-07-14 13:10:15
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Judi from the Rez 🐾 :
but that's not what happened is it? He heard "I don't know about that" and continued to try convince her
2026-07-15 03:35:25
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Mike Lausier :
Asking if someone wants smex, then ghosting when they say no, is literally the opposite of grape.
2026-07-14 16:56:04
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cashmunie :
Precisely why I keep stating that the demonization of this guy is not a good thing. In order to demonize him, people have to remove the autonomy from the woman in this situation, and that’s straight misogyny straight up. And also, this conversation is already affecting queer and neurodivergent folks because I’ve already seen people bring up the fact that most of us are defending the guy and see nothing wrong with happened and are equating it to us being sexual fiends and predators. It’s sad man
2026-07-14 00:36:36
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spaglol00 :
They are just spamming words they saw on tiktok without knowing what they mean. They throw them around and hope that they stick, thinking that we are stupid.🤦♀️🤦♀️
2026-07-16 06:48:52
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Medium-Ugly :
I’m so irritated at women treating sex workers like they aren’t people by saying “he should’ve hired a sex worker if he just wanted sex” they’re treating sex workers like bodies the same thing they’re upset accusing him of doing
2026-07-14 00:30:00
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light_side_affliction :
The only way to think this is coercive and perpetuating rape culture, is to think that her not getting a second date is harmful to her. Just because getting rejected feels bad doesn’t make it coercive. Otherwise you’d be saying no girl can break up with a guy over differences without being coercive. If she says she wants kids and if he doesn’t they shouldn’t continue dating, is she being coercive to change his values or else he can’t date her anymore? If she’s Catholic and says she can’t seriously date anyone who isnt Catholic, is she coercing him into changing his religion or else he can’t date her anymore? No. Of course not. It’s not different here just because the boundary is sex and it’s a guy putting the boundary in place.
2026-07-14 00:13:52
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