Hidden behind every “this is just who I am”. That’s the hard part people don’t make the connection to. You litterally have to question and change your personality
2026-07-14 07:32:54
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Jen :
I also think we can have different attachment styles with different people we can be anxious with someone avoidant and we can be secure with other people and avoidant with other people - we were all shown a variety of attachment growing up we might have been modelled some security some anxiety and some avoidance and it all makes up how we relate to different people and I never hear people talking about this - it’s more like you are anxious or you are avoidant and I just don’t think that’s true a lot of the time 🙏
2026-07-14 12:04:15
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stacey :
Great message, people are afraid to look in the mirror, healing is scary for a lot people because it requires you to step out your comfort zone 💯 ❤️🙏
2026-07-14 06:30:24
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BLAIR :
Powerful
2026-07-14 06:32:29
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Songbird Soulful 🎶 🐦 :
You're absolutely right. It's called bypassing. The work needs to be done.
2026-07-14 04:51:38
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Floridaboi :
Exactly 💯
2026-07-14 13:47:58
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