Dr. Nicole LePera
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Tuesday 14 July 2026 03:02:25 GMT
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KeyLoyalGame :
When I say I have a routine daughter goes to bed at the same time everyday at 8pm and you call me everyday at 8pm 😅🥴
2026-07-16 12:13:04
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Amber :
also being left out
2026-07-16 11:35:13
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Rotisserielizard :
As an overlooked person I’m hyper vigilant about being a great gift giver. It’s a double edged sword
2026-07-15 21:27:46
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Ekaterina :
YESSSSSSS
2026-07-16 08:07:33
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CelinaRollins :
How do I send this to my family without them getting mad at me? 😭
2026-07-16 07:18:32
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anticlout4 :
For me it depends on who it’s from.
2026-07-16 06:42:51
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Amanda :
oof. yeaaahh
2026-07-16 03:41:16
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Analise Romey :
yes no one admits how ungrateful you feel after receiving such a thoughtless gift. the point of "its the thought thst counts" means they tried their best to find somthing despite not knowing...not "i thought i had to get a gift so this will do" thing. id truly rather have nothing, please.
2026-07-15 20:03:10
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Sam Hook :
Alternately, getting love bombed can be absolutely overwhelming, and narcissists can very easily take advantage. After that happens, trusting pretty much anyone completely is just off the table.
2026-07-15 19:51:23
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B :
Cut off friends and family for this.
2026-07-15 18:35:34
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KTBradley :
Cannot BELIEVE we have access to THE Nicole DePera!!! I hope people scrolling know what a hugely successful writer, teacher and healer you are. One of the main reasons I keep this app, simply the best content creators.
2026-07-16 00:58:25
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Eric 🇨🇦 :
The pain of not being known, such a powerful and terrible feeling.
2026-07-14 03:06:21
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Wendy :
I also really don’t like being the center of attention.
2026-07-15 14:08:47
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Elle Vicini | Inner Peace :
this resonates so much. i think so many people labeled themselves as "too sensitive" when in reality, they were carrying the grief of never feeling fully seen🥹. there is something incredibly painful about growing up feeling like no one truly noticed your inner world. Your fears, your dreams, your sadness, your needs, etc. So later in life, when someone forgets, overlooks, or dismisses us, our body can react with so much intensity because it is not only responding to the present moment... it is remembering every other moment we felt invisible too. And perhaps that is why thoughtfulness feels like love to so many people. Because beneath it is a quiet message: You do not have to disappear to be loved. I see you. 🤍
2026-07-14 04:10:42
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A girl and 2 Cats :
I once got wine themed pajamas from my aunt and uncle. I live a sober life for health reasons which they are aware of. They also know my deep love and passion for cats and Taylor swift. Easy gift giving opportunities.
2026-07-15 18:39:46
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Joe Bizy Bee :
My estranged parents never understood why I told them to stop giving gifts to me. They ALWAYS proved how little they understood me. It was always a reinforcement of what they wanted me to be.
2026-07-14 13:58:59
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magoogle9 :
now I know why I hate my birthday.
2026-07-14 15:43:50
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rgrl19 :
Could you do a follow up on how to coach myself to handle this experience? This hits home but I need tools to handle it on the moment
2026-07-14 18:34:55
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Brandee :
Oof this one nailed it.
2026-07-15 07:19:14
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jennibean :
I think unfortunately that this is most people. everyone is so wrapped up in their own traumas and pain - there are only a few of us who also give what we are wanting to receive.
2026-07-15 11:43:58
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Greys4Days :
oh, so my entire life is this. great.
2026-07-16 03:39:41
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mimi 🫶🏾 :
it triggers me SO BAD
2026-07-16 01:57:27
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JustAsYouAre💙💙💙 :
I've long since abandoned my birthday due to this (it's 3 days after Xmas).
2026-07-15 15:54:43
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Lastra❌ :
everyday I discover more shit wrong with me lol
2026-07-15 14:22:18
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catalyst1111✨ :
this has carried into my adult life with friends and even family. or they just remember what I liked when I was 12. it's frustrating and proves I have no one that connects with me.
2026-07-15 02:45:24
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