@itsrayahhenry: and it was my dad too, which is why it hurt even more of it hear. but whatever, today I stopped caring about what they think of me and I only start caring about what I think of myself. #toxicparenting #fyp #chaotic #fake #fypシ

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kaime.idk.dcpgp
_idk_🥖 :
"lazy" in parents language is not a person that doesn't do anything, it's a kid whose life doesn't revolve around serving them. They don't give a shit about how much you work if it's not the work they want and a work made for them specially
2026-07-26 10:04:05
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beverlysmd
Californium :
If you’re considered lazy then I guess I’m in a coma
2026-07-24 12:48:05
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m00nruled
floRAHHHHH :
having jealous parents is sooo exhausting.
2026-07-24 23:29:13
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d0ll_scarx
Niki 🖤 :
So proud of you 🫶🏽 your hard work will pay off!
2026-08-06 06:52:34
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killthepoison
Lucifer 🔻 :
tell them you're not proud of them
2026-07-24 09:34:41
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usernamedafneeee
Dafne. :
Some parents bond over mutual disdain for their child. It helps them avoid talking about themselves and their relationship. I’m sorry this is happening to you, you are far from lazy if you are doing all of those things
2026-07-24 01:41:13
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aelitamp4
aelitamp4 :
start judging them too!! once i realized they have also made poor life decisions and are not great people to have around i am not proud of them as functioning adults either
2026-08-06 08:00:27
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gadesnotfound
berries4gade⁷ :
They call me lazy. I make them lunch to take to work, my brother's lunch, dinner for everyone, plan and get the groceries and keep the house tidy while also being a student.
2026-08-06 07:14:25
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sw33tbr0wnsuga
♡𝖒𝖔𝖒𝖒𝖞𝖙𝖆𝖑𝖟♡ :
they're calling you lazy cause your world doesn't revolve around them anymore, it's a sad thing
2026-07-24 16:11:30
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anitsirk.f
Ani :
girl, please make sure you do not subconsciously attach your worth to productivity! you were born and thus you're worthy!
2026-08-05 19:55:14
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pez9z
Pez! :
They’re projecting hun
2026-08-06 05:43:04
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hanssglamxo
𖥨🌸𑇓 ݁₊𝐇𝐀𝐍𝐍𝐀𝐇ᵎᵎ༝༚🐬៹࣪ :
Girl do not listen to them. You are doing so much at such a young age
2026-07-14 18:37:56
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https_eden0
eden 🇵🇸 :
you're "lazy" because you're not doing anything for them. took me some time to get used to knowing that
2026-07-29 06:28:45
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flynnryder_1
... :
we are proud of you
2026-07-25 15:30:19
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lndz0522
Lnd.zii :
Girl, they're projecting
2026-07-28 15:49:22
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notyouryesgirlnotanymore
nonononono :
i realized in highschool that my parents and grandparents will never be able to understand the pressure i have even if they see me break down. no need to prove to ppl that u are doing a lot. just focus on keep going to get somewhere in life. if they come around that’s great. if they don’t, you have a better life so who cares?
2026-07-24 13:52:55
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vrrm_vrrm
Lora (My Name Isn’t Lora) :
parents just being speaking to speak atp, this honestly proves that they dont know you in the slightest
2026-07-20 12:29:45
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valerie99grims
Valerie Farmer :
if you’re lazy im fucking dead 😭
2026-07-26 00:23:28
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ujangie
ujamng :
they always want you to do everything and anything and bc u dont complain despite overworking urself they think you arent doing shit lol its annoying
2026-07-24 15:28:27
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2_0_0_3_m
2_0_0_3_m :
Honestly, you are doing alot. Keep going diva
2026-07-21 19:42:26
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flycorpse
Karma ♫⃠ :
don’t let the haters distract u from the grind 🔥
2026-07-24 14:25:56
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supernovathreads
Super Nova Threads 🌟 Hailey C :
Some parents get jealous of their children’s success and opportunities so they purposefully make you feel bad about yourself in hopes that you fail and come crawling back to them for support. Especially true if your parents didn’t do as well in school/didn’t attend post-secondary or they have a narcissistic/insecurity problem of sorts.
2026-07-24 14:47:56
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natalie._.beth
natalie._.beth :
I'm proud of you, it must be hard but you got this.
2026-07-24 15:24:02
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adstirna
Ad Stirna :
This won't make it better but it may help you understand, they probably also complain because they see you do all these things outside and feel like you could use that energy inside the house. Definitely not your fault and it is shitty that parents think like this, but some of them genuinely believe that your time and energy should go to be their personal maids because "that's the least you can do". They are selfish and that's not your fault
2026-07-24 12:48:03
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