@sara.tibbers: Kings stand up 👑

kissthexerxes :

bio essentialist😂

Stubby chode :

Why do I need to be feminine?

amara :

saying bare minimun and then say "serve the feminine and their community" 🤣 we need healthy feminists.

Captain Leo :

But that applies to everyone not just men. What's your point?

Moe :

Your take is sensible, but in all honesty, I don't think men are the people you really need to speak to. Culture more or less dictates what is classified as "normal". When it's a singular view and standard, there's a degree of consistency in that regard. You're more or less interested in a traditional man and want to live a traditional life. You can probably find men like that. But men changing isn't something that just happened. There are reasons why it happened. I don't blame women for everything, that would be absurd, there are other factors: economical, internet culture and media are examples. I guess the best way the world will get men like the ones you are describing is if that kind of man is genuinely rewarded for being that way. Most marriages end in divorce, most of the time they lose custody. Most people prefer dating before marriage and they prefer online dating over interacting IRL first. Most men will end up rejected prior to interaction due to not being seen as attractive. There's nothing necessarily wrong with that, attraction isn't moral, it's just nature. But these are real factors I don't think you are properly taking into account. I'm personally doing well for myself as a man, financially stable, mature and in peace. But the way the world looks doesn't really inspire me to want to take on the burden of responsibilities in relationships that are statistically likely to fail. I want to end by saying I don't have hate for anyone, but I'm a rational person and I make dynamic sensible choices when presented with new information in a changing environment. Best of luck with your romantic endeavors.

arthurcilento :

Bare minimum and expecting us to all look like Henry Cavill is insane.

christofferson 🍉 ⊙ :

You went from men not doing enough, which is valid, then went into preaching perfectionism and patriarchal standard of gender roles... :/

John :

Straight up facts!!!!

amos :

hey alcohol is not poisonous😯

Ekko13 :

I thought you were going to talk about kali :(

The involuntary abject :

Same can be said for the women BTW

Marko Bešter :

Yes, I agree with your words! But, are you open to possibility to verbalize the same massage in a femine way?

Relentless Infinity :

Beautiful wisdom. I needed to hear this.

Nooshy - Mamma 🐻 Bear :

yes. in the Matriarchal system... men like that were never made father's for a reason

vvvv_bond :

you can't blame the average menn the top 10% are the ones needed to be enlightened, cus society ain't right but it's laws still has power

Dhan_gabut :

I'll keep it short, I agree with your statements. to summarize, any woman would want a man that is generally an adult and acts responsibly, to have a good foundation as a husband and father for his family. I'm sorry but the way you're so specific with how a man should be is this... extreme idealistic view of a perfect man. while I do wish this upon my fellow men.. if I speak up like this in my views of women, they call it controlling and misogynistic. be man or woman, have flaws... take it easy.

plea364 :

what are you saying

plea364 :

Football Addicts :

you've describe the bare maximum

noudinte :

I'm a man and this is great message to Men...The way you see men have failed in the society women have failed in the same way so as you lecture the men give the same great message to the Women too.

Curious :

not an isolated issue

Spider~Man™️ :

Aren't those Standard things to do 😂😭

QPX :

This is for BOTH genders

Louis Prince :

A lot of these things just sounds like bad character traits, it's not strictly male. so y boil it down to men??

Lldee Lavoie :

I agree, women do alot if invisible work that gets taken for granted. If we want to be treated in this loving way, we need to keep up.