If I give you a glass of water and put poison in it… Then add sugar… Does the sugar remove the poison? No. It may change the taste. It may make it easier to swallow. But the damage is still there. This is how trauma can work in relationships. Someone hurts you. Disrespects you. Betrays you. Breaks your trust. Then suddenly, they become loving again. They apologise. Buy you gifts. Give you affection. Create beautiful memories. And you start wondering whether the good moments cancel out the bad ones. They don’t. Kindness after cruelty doesn’t automatically erase the damage. An apology without changed behaviour doesn’t remove the wound. Love does not neutralise repeated harm. That’s why toxic relationships can be so confusing. The sweetness makes you question the poison. You remember the beautiful moments and convince yourself that maybe things aren’t really that bad. But healing begins when you stop asking whether there was love… And start asking whether the relationship was safe. Because something can contain beautiful moments and still be damaging to you. Sugar may change the taste. But it doesn’t remove the poison. #Trauma #ToxicRelationships #Healing #realtalk #RelationshipAdvice - @readtheirmind