@antdsply: When should you stop asking questions after an affair? The answer isn't "never"…and it isn't "right away." Healthy questions bring clarity. Endless questions often keep trauma alive. And one of the biggest traps? Letting the affair partner become the focus of your healing. Your recovery deserves more than that. 🫶🏻❤️🩹 #cheating #affair #infidelityrecovery #betrayalrecovery #betrayaltrauma
We found out about my husband's 6m affair 8 weeks ago, we've been together for 17 years. I'm choosing to stay for now, because I have faith in us, but it is a very, very hard.
2026-07-14 20:47:05
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Bettyist Williams 💋 :
what if AP is stalking me? I heal a little and she pops up
2026-07-14 23:17:02
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Lilhuckabe :
My partner and I have been working things out for almost 2 months now. We just got into a fight bc he says I bring it up too much and I’m just living in the past. I felt talking about it was helping us both heal but he now feels like I just keep throwing it in his face but that was never my intention. Now seeing this, I think maybe I am just stuck on it. He’s answered everything I need but I just keep replaying it and asking stuff over again that I already have the answers too.
2026-07-15 09:37:18
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Karen Keenan137 :
It's been 7 years and its still a work in progress. I believe I will have these feelings till the day I die.
2026-07-15 12:11:20
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Jeanette :
chatgpt taught me what questions matter, and what questions I don't need answers to.
2026-07-29 12:16:05
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lhofheins :
I don’t ask after knowing 3 months. I don’t want to know. It’s the other stuff I ask, where are you, who you talking to, what you doing, constantly. Is that normal.
2026-07-19 04:58:49
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Mg :
How do you stop
2026-07-14 22:29:59
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Randi | Just here to be me! :
I wish you could be my best friend. I don’t know how I am going to get through this.
2026-09-11 00:24:03
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. :
Ok but what if you never actually got any answers about the affair, everything I found out , I found out on my own.. she still works with him ( he says she doesn’t but I verified it)
2026-07-14 20:21:40
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FuzzyStar :
If he isn’t staying, is there even a point to me still asking questions?
2026-08-26 23:32:02
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marybutler674 :
Spot on!! Eventually realize there is no answer they can give that will undo what they did. To heal & repair the relationship, you need to accept what you know and focus on the future. Dwelling keeps you in the victim mindset, don’t hold yourself hostage by telling yourself you deserve to know more, obsessing and/ or holding it over your partner. Of course, this is all reasonable in the beginning but eventually, move forward.
2026-07-15 17:49:31
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captainking :
Everything I know is from finding it out ion my own. Then I got trickle truth for two additional years and his affair partner was and is still obsessively trying to maintain contact. After living like this, I have decided to leave. He does not know it yet but it’s coming.
2026-07-27 15:18:02
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Barbi :
Well then I’ve failed in every area I guess….oops
2026-07-15 03:25:42
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Teagan :
Your videos are very helpful. My partner of 6 years & 3 kids cheated on me for the past 2 years and I just found out right before my twins were born recently. Your thought process gives me good perspective.
2026-07-15 03:28:56
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🐞🐞🌈 Missyjo76🌈🐞🐞 :
I needed to hear this
2026-07-14 23:29:35
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WestEgg Sourdough & Hens :
I agree 💯
2026-07-15 06:19:30
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MIRootsCreations :
😞 I unfortunately needed to hear this… it’s been almost 1.5 years since the affair came to light. Sadly I am in therapy and was diagnosed with PTSD because of it…
2026-07-20 12:47:29
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WestEgg Sourdough & Hens :
after the initial shock and extent of betrayal is more than enough learning anymore if self flaggelating
2026-07-15 06:20:31
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Mg :
😁😁😁
2026-07-14 22:30:02
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