@casidesarro:

Swedish Curls (Kate) :

8 years here I’m dying… 😂😂

mriede :

Girl, you have the right frame of mind. Don’t ever give your body to someone who doesn’t love you.

Nichollejeanne :

I personally don’t want to take on someone else’s energy unless in a committed relationship. Remember how it feels afterwards if they do not ultimately have good intentions and got what they wanted. It’s been about 4 years for me. How much do you trust them. Is it someone you are prepared to bind yourself to?

lyssnico_ :

I just made plans today for this weekend to do this 😂 haven’t in two years at this point

matthewpope1 :

I'm at over a year myself I really stopped counting after I hit a year mark. I spend so much time in the Secret Place in prayer and meditation. I ask the Lord to convict me of my Righteousness and Right Standing every day. I then ask for loving and gentle conviction in love and truth in the areas I'm falling short in. I put my Fear of the Lord and pushing distance between me and Him in relationship over my fears and anxieties of the world. I am living a life of Radical Obedience and Surrender.

Peggy Demmons :

there has to be some type of connection can't just sleep with anyone

cynthiavipjohnson :

Is it Worth it ?

paco69 :

Why’re you being weird about it?

Mickey :

hun to me is wait for the right one

Sonette van Dyk :

if your soul feels a connection....do it....

Bradley L Harrison :

It’s been close to 5 years for me. The first year was the hardest , but also not hard at all. I have periods of feelings absolutely feral, and just ready, but I don’t want to just give it away to anyone either. Now I try not to have dating labels requirements or expectations when I think about it, and just trust that when it’s meant to be it will be. I also know I can’t do anything to hurt my path or what’s meant for me. I don’t want to be controlled internally by lust, but at the same time I feel there is nothing wrong with my own human desires. I too had a lot of sexual trauma in my life at all ages. I don’t want to take on anyone’s sexual energy that’s not meant for me. I don’t want to transmute someone else’s shit, or take on their shit. It’s supposed to be a sacred exchange for sure, and I believe the energy exchange part is important. I think it’s important to meditate on it about each person and trust how it feels in our solar plexus. Trust the gut. Energy check in. Will we be taking on their unresolved issues? For some reason for me, I feel like when it does happen I’ll be almost oblivious that it’s about to happen. I won’t be doing anything new during retrograde for sure, but I also don’t see it coming up anytime soon. Yet at the same time I do sense new relationships in my field. Lol, my friend I don’t know what to tell you. The struggle is real! lol. I’ve put in my desire and what I want with God, and I trust it’ll happen when it should.

Audrey Byker :

There has always had to be an emotional connection for me. I tell my 18 yr old daughter I am so grateful 🥹 I stayed strong and honored that. At the same time having sex is my favorite thing in the entire world. I believe I feel that way because I’ve kept it special

Angeleyes :

Girl yessss eight years celibacy and nope I can not

JoeyV :

We take on the energy of the other person we have intercourse with because that’s how God created humans to become ONE with the opposite sex

Woody :

You do you!😉

Jake :

becomes a soul tie

Corey🇵🇸 :

it's def crossed my mind but nothing/no one has really resonated yet, over 6 years now

Harlan :

amen sister

Nichollejeanne :

You’re probably in that phase in your cycle. Take care of your needs, then decide. lol

Rebellious Spiritualist 2.0 :

Morning Song Healing Arts :

Even before my awakening casual relations left me empty. Now? I can’t even imagine being so careless with my energy.

chuck48493 :

idk if I’m speaking for myself or not, but I’d kill just to have my head scratched and hair played with again while I nap. That’s peace man. ✌

Casey Curtis :

Waiting for the right woman to come along. I will wait as long as it takes.

Lee 🤍 :

It’s been 11 yrs for me but I’m waiting for the right person. I don’t want just anyone

Eye :

i would say at least 1 month since the first day u meet the person close