@tuvecinadeallado: How many times have you tried couples therapy? Twice? Three times? Maybe you’ve even changed therapists. And it still isn’t working, is it? Well, maybe it’s not that therapy doesn’t work. Maybe you’re just not telling each other the truth. Because you can learn to communicate better. You can do the exercises. Have a date night every Friday. Listen without interrupting. But if she doesn’t dare to say: “I love you, but I don’t want you to touch me anymore”… And he doesn’t dare to say: “I’m tired of feeling like I have to beg you to desire me”… What the fuck are you actually trying to fix? It’s not always a lack of communication. Sometimes you talk all the time. About the children, the stress, the housework, the hormones, the job… Everything.Except the truth. And no therapist can work with a truth that neither of you is willing to say out loud.