@khandi_ray: Growing up in a toxic narcissist environment will automatically lower your self esteem. It causes you to think less of yourself. Just know it’s not your fault. Your not shy, you just need to work on your self esteem. You can do it ❤️ #healingtiktok #narcissisticabuse #forgive #khandiray #mommyissues
Uncomfortable at home then at school then you had no escape
2026-09-01 11:46:32
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Empress :
I was suicidal at age 12
2026-07-16 13:25:01
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Jonnybagyo :
I was forced to be performative
2026-07-15 23:21:05
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Lovelyleo._ :
Social Anxiety all bc i feel judged about everything
2026-07-15 21:10:49
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Cresta Say :
I am 53 and I still don’t know who I am. 💔
2026-08-25 23:13:37
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RochelleArshaNicole1995 :
I Used To Cry My Eyes Out Plenty Of Times
2026-07-17 04:13:48
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KDEXTERR :
It’s like my whole body is uncomfortable everywhere because I was uncomfortable in my house my whole life
2026-07-31 19:42:27
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Heavenly 💗🥰🥺 :
Man 😮💨 well this explains ALOT
2026-08-22 04:53:01
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Agree to Disagree :
in order to heal.. you have to be yourself and tell your story... Tell it with no remorse...
2026-08-20 19:34:37
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☆Chosen1☆ :
You become very sheltered!! Don't like being around people
2026-07-22 21:10:35
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blackbeauty :
its safe to be me.
2026-08-07 14:40:19
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King Ollie :
Damn‼️‼️I feel so seen 😓
2026-08-24 01:11:46
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Stefania :
You just made me ball my eyes out. You explained me in words I could never put together myself. Thank you. I’m trying so hard to let her come out now that I’m a mom and my own person in my own home.
2026-07-15 14:22:36
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Mr.Long :
I was abused as a child but I learned to do the opposite of what I feel
2026-08-23 17:29:59
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melisslcy9f :
This didn’t happen to me. I was born with a big personality so i was quiet at home and out going at school and dance classes. The thing was that u could see my mom hated when people liked me. She was jealous i had friends. Sick
2026-08-24 05:21:57
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C.lita839 :
This helps explain why I was afraid to go into stores by myself. High School large lunch room. at 52 I just realized I was a bit introverted hoping to be extrovert. the trauma runs deep and lasts so long. yesterday and a brief discussion with my brother he tried to tell me to leave the past alone and just get over it. I so don't like when people say that. I feel those people don't understand how trauma works on you forever. they don't get that you can figure out how to cope yet it never goes away. if it was to go away I wouldn't suffer with PTSD, anxiety, panic attacks or depression. And talking is therapy for me yet most don't care to listen they feel you are dumping on them so it stays bottled in. people claim they are willing to listen when in the end they say girl if I were you I wouldn't care or let it bother me. That's just it, you're not me so can you just listen at least. Geesh my mom doesn't care and I see it's hard to get anyone you don't pay to care to listen.
2026-07-15 20:57:32
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✨Chosen Unique✨ :
Omg sugar thank you so much I love you 😭😭💐💐❤️
2026-07-15 21:14:32
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Mute :
Facts when you do you feel like you running people off
2026-08-25 03:59:44
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Destiny B. Gilliard, B.S. :
I need to book a session with you I keep getting into internships and fellowships and I feel myself being closed off when it comes to being in these spaces when I’m in groups or being scared to create friendships or connections
2026-09-01 22:17:36
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simplybianca_40 :
This is me. You are spot on. However, I got blamed for it and people feel that I need to change or to be fixed. Being an abusive and toxic environment caused it.
2026-08-06 03:42:52
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steph :
Didn’t have a single person growing up to uplift me it’s cool tho cause God gave me my identity🙏🏾✝️
2026-08-27 14:08:55
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williamcole519 :
thank you so much for sharing this message
2026-07-16 10:54:25
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SPILL THE TEA 🍵 :
My MOM HURT ME
2026-07-26 23:36:24
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divinecaribbean🇧🇿✨ :
The way we’ve experienced so much similarities. You definitely get it & thank you for these videos. 🫶🏽
2026-07-20 14:39:23
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