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cleverwhatever :

Sigh. If you want him to ask, let him know. Or just tell him. Maybe talk to your therapist about why you have so many unexpressed expectations.

Mailman Dave!! :

It’s possible that he knows therapy is private and doesn’t ask about it. The piercing? He probably should have seen that unless he is legally blind.

Entropy_Girl :

Dump him and find someone that loves you and likes you 🩷

Jennie :

My man asks, but he’s also mindful it is a sensitive subject and something he lets me bring up bc it is my sessions. I use to think like this when I realize he’s just polite and letting me make the choice to open up about it and has been transparent he does care and willing to listen on my own terms

Angel True :

Breakup. You are expecting things of him. Whether right or wrong one or both of iu isn't behaving in a healthy manner.

Joe Kiyoshi :

it sounds like he is uninterested in you. Honestly dump him and find someone who cares about you the way you want to be cared about.

dray :

Towanda McGillicuddy :

therapist here--i think the whole idea of therapy can make people (especially men) uncomfortable so they tend to avoid talking about it. that said, i think that also could indicate that he is generally avoidant (of feelings, vulnerability, difficult conversations) and that type of attachment style can make getting closer very hard and tedious over time. it also means you will likely end up doing all of the emotional labor in the relationship. if you are wanting to be truly seen and considered (e.g. your new piercing and your daily experiences), then maybe he doesnt have the willingness or ability to give you that and you either choose to accept that and lower your expectations or you move on. your overthinking might come from anxiety, but I often find that we overthink because our brains are trying to fill in the blanks of what we dont know which can trigger insecurities. that requires examination of a) your own attachment style and b) his openness and willingness to share. we've been taught that mystery is sexy, but it's not, it's someone withholding and/or avoiding sharing deeper parts of themselves--hence the attemp to fill in blanks. hope this helps and I hope you have a growthful therapy journey!

Amazonvsmisogynist :

💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕Sending you big hugs and love.

Casey :

I always asked up until they asked for a divorce, I want to know how my partner is doing.