@betterthroughbetrayal: Yes, it really is that deep. Before everyone jumps into the comments with, “It’s just makeup,” no… it’s not. The basket isn’t the issue. It’s the fact that when he had an opportunity to make his wife feel special, his first instinct was another woman. And people might be like “oh he probably wasn’t even thinking” THATS THE POINT. He won a make up basket and his wife didn’t even cross his mind for one second. And before anyone says, “It’s not like he cheated…” Affairs don’t usually start in a hotel room. They start with small choices. Little moments where someone outside the relationship starts getting your attention, your thoughtfulness, your emotional energy, or your effort instead of your partner. Am I saying giving away a gift automatically means someone is having an affair? No. I’m saying healthy relationships are protected in the little moments long before they ever have to survive the big ones. If I won something my partner would love, I wouldn’t have to stop and think about who should get it. My first instinct would be him. That’s not insecurity. That’s what it looks like when your spouse is your priority. #betrayal
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Wednesday 15 July 2026 16:33:19 GMT
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Krys :
im too autistic for normal relationships bc my thinking would've been oh it was a work raffle so if I don't want the prize it should go to another person who was in the raffle trying to get a prize 😭
2026-07-16 11:39:24
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𝓥𝓲𝓿𝓲 🇨🇷 🇺🇸 :
in his only defense it was employee dinner only. BUT id be livid if my spouse did this, because he then took photos with said coworker and the company posted it EVERYWHERE, while the wife was at home
2026-07-15 17:57:23
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🐈⬛ Tresemme 🐈⬛ :
My local radio show does this segment called War of the Roses, where the host pretends to give away a dozen free roses to men to see who they would send them to, they would catch so many cheaters this way.
2026-07-15 23:44:39
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Maleah :
I asked my boyfriend about it and he said “oh no I’d keep it, it’s mine” 💀
2026-07-15 18:13:34
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Nicole VanRosendael :
100% I would be hurt and angry! Why would you not bring it home as a nice gift for your wife?
2026-07-15 17:50:57
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badabadabingbo :
The guy in the right. the wife said she didnt like makeup.
2026-07-17 01:38:08
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MandaMac :
I honestly wouldn't care if he gave it to her, he may have needed her help with projects at work or she's a great employee who deserved some recognition, maybe she's going through a rough time and he wanted to be nice. I don't think it needs to be this deep.
2026-07-15 20:17:12
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Sophiee🦄 :
I already think he was having an affair tbh..
2026-07-17 20:45:00
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smsant003 :
My man literally brings me everything girly he wins from work. He’s a nurse, he is one of the only men. And I still come first.
2026-07-15 19:56:30
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Ash Madden :
without context, what a wild conclusion to make. maybe she doesn't like makeup or only uses a certain kind.
2026-07-16 08:27:22
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Flamingo gal 🦩 ❌ 🇺🇸 :
The issue is he didn't ask his wife if she wanted it. It was more important to him to make a show at work than talk to his wife about it. It IS a big deal.
2026-07-15 18:16:40
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Serenity Mizuhana :
I want to say something but for all we know the wife may not like makeup. granted he should have spoken with her first about it but then again some men knows what their woman wants and some dont. If my other half had won makeup for me at a party or something and he brought it home to me i would be like take it back because i know i dont like make up. He knows i dont like make up. Some men knows their woman some do not.
2026-07-15 22:59:35
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👀 :
honestly idc bc I'm not jealous that my partner can be nice to other people?
2026-07-16 12:18:35
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Jerri Rabalais :
I’m also a stay at home mom, 4 kids. Asked my husband what he would do and he said “bring it home to you”. How did this man at all think about another woman and not his wife.
2026-07-15 18:08:37
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Jennifer Castiglia :
Rumor has it they’re divorcing, makes you think there were other things.
2026-07-15 23:25:24
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Al00f_Fl00f :
I get it both ways, bro was at work he wasn’t thinking outside the box of work environment. Divorce is a lot but I get the wife being upset he didn’t think of her. Overreacting to assume more
2026-07-20 01:11:44
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maryam <3 :
him and that coworker are having an affair 10000%
2026-07-16 09:18:52
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Khailmorri 🦊 :
Apparently she had delivered a baby, dealing with the aftermath and while taking care of the home 😳
2026-07-15 18:11:38
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Catchickmama :
I would want my husband to ask me first, but in reality, I don’t wear a lot of makeup and would rather it go to someone else who would love and use it. Although, my husband would feel awkward giving it to someone else so he would probably leave it somewhere for someone else to take lol 😂
2026-07-16 12:38:10
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ι❤️ѕнι∂συ!(≧◡≦)💕 :
“B-But the makeup isn’t as much as a PS5!” If you looked at the bag and knew how expensive makeup is you would tell that it is probably worth MORE than a PS5💔
2026-07-17 00:19:01
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Kylee Ann Reichartz :
My man knows if he ever got anything in a raffle he doesnt personally want it goes to me first. We are partners. I do the same for him so i expect the same.
2026-07-15 23:59:31
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Alexxis :
I mean... it's a gift from work so giving the gift to someone who works at the place giving the gift kinda makes sense to me? If it's not something that means anything to me and let's say I know my boyfriend is an Xbox guy so I don't really think a Playstation is something he cares about all that much, then yeah handing it to a coworker who had as much chance of winning it as I did wouldn't seem that crazy to me. And if I came home and my husband threatened to DIVORCE ME over it I'd definitely be a little flabbergasted. But that's also just me operating in a bubble, I treat my partner very well and I get him gifts that are important to him and cater to his interests regularly and he has seen me interact with male coworkers and friends and has never once thought I had any romantic interest in them *because I don't* lmao. I think in this scenario, if your brain is going toward a large reaction as a response to your husband's behavior, then there are DEFINITELY other things going on and this would be more of a "final straw" type moment.
2026-07-16 05:44:29
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Dankifer :
My bestie and I are kinda opposites in a way and even my man said he’d bring it home and if it’s something I won’t like or use she probably would and that’s enough reason for him to just give it to me…sooooo yeah dk what that dude was thinking
2026-07-16 11:00:38
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JLCL :
Im safe! I asked my boyfriend about this scenario and asked, who would he give that basket too he said without a second thought: "Id give it to you, why would I give something I won to a coworker?"
2026-07-15 18:36:39
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Dapperdansmom :
I would definitely be kicking his A$$&$$ to the curb!
2026-07-15 20:46:05
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