@estherperel_official: When we drop into the domestic, we risk losing the erotic. How do you break from routine to reignite desire? What does desire thrive on? #ad @drinkhint
who the hell is keeping up the erotic for 30 years?
2026-07-18 03:51:21
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Tony :
Thought she had an interesting perspective, but the undertones are an ick. No thank you
2026-07-24 09:24:21
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Elizabeth and her stand mixer :
As a neurodivergent person, in a relationship with another neurodivergent person, the routine is HEAVEN for both of us. Do what works for you, and your loved one. 🥰🥰
2026-07-19 03:57:07
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🔹🔷🔹🔷🔹🔷🔹 :
My wife is mad at me because she brought in her adult daughter and grandbaby to live with us. And wonders where the chemistry between us.
2026-07-25 23:30:39
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Will :
Love your work. A collaboration with Orion Taraban would be epic.
2026-08-29 00:11:45
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David Vukmanic :
And how does she suggest we do that? I don’t know about everyone else but I have no clue what she is actually saying here.
2026-07-23 21:04:37
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Kyla 23 :
so keep as a lover and dont marry him or move in with them,cause the thrill of the chase will be over ..I agree 😁
2026-07-17 19:15:00
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all.one.love67 :
I hate my gray hair I want thing volor
2026-08-22 04:03:21
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Staaaaardust :
You have to be upfront about being an routine loving home-body so the other person knows what they're getting into
2026-07-16 21:47:31
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NS :
Not if you marry for the Right Reason in the 1st place. Marry your Best friend. Never a dull moment
2026-08-04 18:46:26
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Cassandra :
lovvve your hair&outfit!🍀❤️
2026-07-15 18:15:30
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Folson Ayiti :
Coupling is outdated...
2026-08-30 20:30:08
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I Am His Karma :
Desire is an attachment that causes suffering. Facts.
2026-07-28 17:25:56
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Angelataylor174 :
Routine relationship. NO. God NO. Stability yes but routine absolutely not.
2026-08-04 21:27:35
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Simple questions :
Is this lady married? Have kids? Divorced?
2026-08-06 11:24:49
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Duckduckgoose :
Being an introvert, I don’t know how to flirt! 😳
2026-07-28 01:00:10
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DaveADamnMess :
And your solution?
2026-07-25 21:22:28
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Kaleidoscope Heart :
Exactly 💯
2026-07-27 01:27:16
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Brett Breslow :
Wow
2026-07-17 00:09:44
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user9602003259833 :
Men seek novelty. She trying to help
2026-07-19 15:45:23
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528Hz :
Is this a new book?
2026-07-16 12:00:58
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MoneyUncleVT :
It’s what you keep hearing defined as “mental load” that women talk about.
2026-07-24 15:54:22
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martatou1 :
OK, so what is your tip? What are some practical steps?
2026-08-05 22:28:41
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ThoreauvianWarrior :
Maybe Human Beings are not designed to be monogamous for life, but Society sold humanity on the idea of spending most of one’s adult life with one person. After 20 years, ya pretty much know the ins and outs of each other, so “super interesting conversations” aren’t really a thing. The “unknown, wish for discovery, keeps us feeling alive” - sounds like ‘I know I made a Vow and acquired everything I dreamed of when I got married, but now I’m bored and want more, MORE, MOAR!!!” . Yeah, maybe we’ve just been sold horse crap about the “institution of marriage” and shouldn’t ever commit at all.
2026-07-27 21:07:23
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jerryparo8 :
Don't you find it ironic that people who claim to be relationship experts and sex experts are people you would not want to be with in the first place. that's just hilarious to me
2026-08-16 22:11:11
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