@4b.forever0: Unfortunately, being different from the mainstream, can make you a target for men who want to bypass boundaries. As a queer/neurodivergebt/alt woman or AFAB person, I promise you that you still deserve love and respect in your dating experiences with men and AMAB people

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dom.da.dom
Dom :
I cannot stand baby bangs bc of Madeline Pendleton
2026-07-15 21:08:33
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sonderlinena
. :
men will take advantage of any marginalized woman because they expect her to be under resourced
2026-07-15 23:46:18
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silvernovah
SilverNovah :
As a neurodivergent woman, this exactly the type of men I attract. Which is why I’m no longer dating. I’ve had so many men say the exact same things to me as voice memo guy and I just walk away. I’m so tired of trying to build a relationship with men that don’t give me and respect or decency.
2026-07-16 02:16:26
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bityrant
bi tyrant🍉🌈🎶 :
Yep. And this is another reason why bi womxn have the highest rates of dv, intimate partner v, and mental health issues compared to str8 or lesbian counterparts.
2026-07-16 02:17:12
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glittermel0n
Chaffin :
They’re addicted to getting manic pixie dream girled 💔
2026-07-15 23:46:00
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dollcign
nana :
Yuppp omg. Been clocked. “Goth mommy” and “touch of the tism”
2026-07-16 02:06:17
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christisnuts
christisnuts :
I think it’s also because hook up culture and sex positivity is a big thing in those communities not that that’s a bad thing just something I personally noticed
2026-07-16 07:23:22
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gold_cursive
Gold Cursive 🇺🇸🇵🇸🇨🇩 :
I'm nuerodivergent and the voicemail didn't surprise me because I've received many similar texts and voicemails in the past. There is something about being nuerodivergent that is bait to these types. Usually they want to hang out until they have drained the manic pixie dream girl right out of you. A decade ago I too might have been defending the voicemail as just being transparent. Now I know better and am no longer willing to build castles out of the sand a narcissistic man kicks in my direction.
2026-07-15 21:47:07
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pwengting
𓆏 period pooh :
I agree that it’s the same type of woman justifying this but it’s not for the reasons ur saying. It’s cause they wanna keep the open and progressive posture online and don’t wanna be labelled as puritanical. For some progressive women it can become a contest of who has the most woke progressive take. I see it as a weird kinda grift it’s the same vibe of when conservatives agree to the most craziest things to win a debate. e.g. what Kirk said he would have his daughter do if certain bad thing happened to them during jubilee debate
2026-07-15 23:10:08
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bn87538
bn87538 :
they also often have cishet boyfriends…
2026-07-15 23:07:59
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circecorner
circecorner :
It’s all about conquering to them. Combined with manic pixie dream girl.
2026-07-16 07:16:33
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fairyukraine
fairyukraine :
i’m glad we’re finally talking abt this i’ve been seeing these types of creators for years and they always have neurospicy or audhd in their bios
2026-07-15 18:46:05
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sam521683
sam :
this is so real! when i came out and started dressing more alternatively suddenly all the men who were interested in me started asking me to do all these crazy things in the name of "open mindedness". you can miss me with that shit.
2026-07-16 00:18:37
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rosebelbeauty
Pumpkin Queen :
they wouldnt do this to women with high self esteem. mainstream, neurodivergent, 12 fingers, doesnt matter. they only do what they think they can get away with & i SWEAR they can smell insecure weakness off of some of these women.
2026-07-15 22:58:42
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cocoax0x0
CocoChii🧸🤎 :
As a woman who looks similar to this, it’s sad but it’s true. Men try to prey on me all the time especially because I am neurodivergent and I am virgin who has trauma.
2026-07-16 04:09:52
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starrieluna
Beck ♡ :
Ohhhh noooo this is me exactly, and I had the thought of being less alt presenting and trying to be more “normal” to protect myself 😩
2026-07-16 07:16:08
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bunny_ology
Julia 🐰 :
You see, it's because I was targeted because I am neurodivergent, and that's why I instantly didn't support him - I saw the same thing that happened to me, it's a pattern
2026-07-15 23:17:24
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jobie1111
jobie :
nah ur right. we gotta protect ourselves out here.
2026-07-16 07:22:34
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xinwex
the.lady.katy :
I legit don't understand what people wanted him to do instead. Did they want him to go over to her house and say these things? I feel like that is 100 times more "coercive". Or did they expect him to hide his feelings and then potentially lead her on? see, I would personally never have sex that soon into dating. If a guy did what the voicemail gut did, I would be like "thank god, he told me now so I can get out of this situation and also easily text him without feeling uncomfortable"
2026-07-16 01:30:34
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amberabundance
Amber Abundance :
Being a screen shot in a video like this would wrap me up! LOL!
2026-07-16 05:37:24
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whiitney___
Whitney. :
Ppl aren’t going to like this but you’re 100000% correct
2026-07-16 05:59:33
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bye08243
bye08243 :
People like this tend to defend behaviour from men who act like this because the men are doing it in a way that’s out of the norm so they find it “refreshing” instead. They also tend to give men who act odd the benefit of the doubt because they know what it’s like to be misunderstood so they wrongfully empathise with them.
2026-07-15 22:30:16
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shapeshiftingsnake
Shapeshiftingsnake :
I’m Alt autistic down to the bby bangs 😂 and I come across all too many voice memo guys
2026-07-16 04:01:36
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ruikikun
錯乱 :
The kind of unicorn every swinger couple would go for 😂
2026-07-15 22:15:58
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