so... suggestion. play therapy immediately. they can help figure out what's going on
2026-07-15 18:26:07
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trin ‧₊˚ ⋅ ྀི :
TAKE THEM TO KIDS THERAPY. this is not normal PLEASE hear me! Kids should not be this scared 🩵🩵
2026-07-15 23:28:46
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squinn130130 :
You need to ask your son ASAP why . He doesn’t wanna be around her . Kids don’t say that for no reason . I would’ve asked him right then and there so there was a witness
2026-07-15 18:32:48
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Myrna Lopez | SAHM :
Glad the grandma saw that first hand, so she saw it.
2026-07-15 19:34:39
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Sarah-Lou :
Why is the girlfriend having the kids? The custody agreement is between yourself and him not her ? Also maybe your son needs to talk to a professional because that reaction is not normal.
2026-07-15 18:43:49
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Kaamila :
stepmoms can be cruel in the sweetest way but kids can see nd feel it
2026-07-15 18:33:21
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❤️🖤❤️ :
As someone who was severely abused by a step mom LISTEN TO YOUR KIDS!
2026-07-15 18:57:30
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juliaaghouliaa :
Maybe therapy would be good so it can be documented how they’re feeling about it :(
2026-07-15 18:34:49
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mal :
Get them help asap something is definitely happening at their dads
2026-07-16 15:37:33
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Bec :
Him saying he’s “scared” is a big red flag for me. That doesn’t sit right with me 😭 poor babies!!
2026-07-16 06:57:53
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Tara Marie :
kids want to be with primary caretaker.
I will die on the hill that exchanges like this shouldn't happen.
2026-07-15 20:22:36
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Margaret Belgarde :
put them in therapy! play therapy would be so beneficial for them during all of this.
2026-07-15 18:31:25
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Z :
As a therapist something is going on. Your son is identifying being afraid of a specific person. You don’t have to dig yourself, because that could be used against you. Take them into therapy with someone that specializes in divorce or young children. Document, document, document everything. Even if there’s nothing going on it’s great for young kids to have therapy to process all of these emotions and changes 💖
2026-07-15 19:20:04
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Becky Sykes :
As a woman who grew up with evil step mom and was forced to go to my fathers, please hear me when I say there’s obviously something happening there and because of how I grew up there’s no man listed on either one of my children’s birth certificate, which made my second divorce a lot easier.
2026-07-16 13:02:10
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abadamsfejer1967 :
Sucks!! My kids would go but they eventually became old enough to speak their mind and would go but that eventually stopped. I am guessing he overheard gf say something.
2026-07-16 14:39:08
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ltmh4909 :
Omg I hope she isn’t hurting the kids or yelling at them. I am so sorry
2026-07-16 03:26:58
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Ashley Antoinette :
I suggest you put your eldest in counseling, so if there is something going on a mandated reporter can handle the report. In custody situations, this is the best unbiased option.
2026-07-16 00:48:09
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Shannon Dibs :
Something isn’t right!
2026-07-16 11:58:07
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Gabrielle Coy :
that is a sign. you need to take your children to therapy and have them evaluated. it may not be in their best interest to go to their dad's for extended stays if it is causing psychological harm.
2026-07-16 04:02:46
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Patricia guerrero :
I would recommend adding a right of first refusal in your custody plan
2026-07-15 20:07:49
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ALI MARIE | first time mom 🩷 :
I used to never want to go to my dad's house because his ex wife was abusive and was scared that it would get back to her if I told my mom. There's a reason they're scared.
2026-07-15 18:36:15
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Katriina Faires :
these kids need therapy. they need a 3rd party to disclose to if they don't feel safe
2026-07-15 21:27:20
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Ashley Holmes :
as the kid who cried about my dad's girlfriend and dad, seek guidance.
2026-07-15 21:13:05
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Devan Ashley :
Unfortunately if they are responding to going to their dads house like that, that's because something most likely IS happening to them at their dads... I behaved similar when I had to go to my dad's house, and that's because of my stepmom. She was never cruel to me in front of my dad or anyone else, but the dynamic was VERY similar to the situation you have going on with their dad and his gf trying to get an order on you. 😞 She took her frustrations out on me in small ways that at the time my younger self didn't see as her being cruel, but that the things I'd be in trouble for, things/toys taken away, time out, etc were MY fault. She was really good at making me feel guilty for even the tiniest things like saying I was hungry or thirsty. Please try some sort of therapy/play therapy so your kiddos have the ability to articulate what's going on. 🙏🏼
2026-07-15 19:44:08
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Madison Mina :
Speaking from experience this is SUCH a sign.. you’re an amazing mom for listening to your kids. But there’s 100% a reason.
2026-07-15 21:07:42
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