@coach.ryan0: Avoidants usually tell on themselves early… most people just don’t realize it until it’s too late. 👀 #avoidantattachment #dating #relationshiptok #attachmenttheory #redflags
This is exactly what the fuck happend to me. I'm still recovering since september of last year. They can love u, but in the end wins their fears.
2026-07-16 19:05:57
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Blink&YouMiss 😉 :
All this is very true -the problem is, ..Avoidant’s can still be addictive 😌😌😌
2026-07-16 23:36:11
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amandamarie0203 :
My avoidant dated his ex for 3 1/2 years off and on. He said it was the most toxic relationship he had ever been in, but obviously he thrives in that because it provide provided emotional distance. Him and I had such a strong connection in every way, both physical and mentally. It was all positive. I have a good job, I own my house, I’m a very good communicator, I always apologize, and the list goes on. There is not a toxic bone in my body when it comes to a relationship. He walked away from me after telling me I am heaven sent, and how he cares about me way deeper than just sex. Will an avoidant like him realize in his head what a good woman he lost??
2026-07-16 11:46:01
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Patrice :
You so right because after we broke up I realized my dismissive avoidant actually straight up told me he had emotional detachment issues and struggles with expressing himself. I didn’t mind it at first because he still showed up and was a good partner in the beginning but we know how that ended.😅
2026-07-15 23:43:02
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user3171475932462 :
thank you.
2026-07-16 15:56:03
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Jessica90 :
he literally said "i will never talk about my feelings"
2026-07-16 02:18:01
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Outlanders :
My ex with BPD and avoidant believes she's broken the generational abuse. Whereas in reality both her and and her sister have distilled the non agressive versions of her mother's abuse into a very toxic anti man / anti help dynamic
2026-07-16 16:23:10
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Bridgett Lynn :
Red flags I don’t communicate , my mom is controlling and I avoid conflict. Yes all of that but he is emeshed with the very person who made him this way
2026-07-16 06:22:51
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MsMilli :
Because of him not im an avoidant
2026-07-16 05:49:46
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Alan 🐦🔥🐝🙈 :
She told me that she can change and drop people like nothing….i thought i was the exception
2026-07-16 05:10:55
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AMSloc :
damn, I needed this video 9 years ago.
2026-07-16 02:14:03
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tryingtosurvive :
Wish I’d known this a year ago
2026-07-16 03:56:45
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Vanessa Jean :
He literally told me he bottles things up
2026-07-16 03:34:07
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Magnacious :
Told me about a month in that she puts on a tough heartless façade, I should’ve ran in the other direction
2026-07-16 00:06:52
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⭐️💎STARR💎⭐️74❌ :
Damn where were you 7 months ago
2026-07-15 23:57:27
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Jusjessr :
Yup … it’s me.. 💯 and I’m not mad about it.
2026-07-16 02:17:08
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Laurie :
yes
2026-07-16 17:05:05
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Mèo Xanh Aquamarine :
💯 correct. I wish I knew your channel before knowing him 🥺
2026-07-16 09:19:41
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Stefan Pasare :
You described my ex perfectly
2026-07-16 02:07:25
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tiktok73 :
Stop with the childhood shit. Not necessarily the case.
2026-07-15 21:29:26
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